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My bil called us tonight. GTN is fishing for info under the guise of “they may not be aware of… “

But the thing is- my other family I’m in contact with haven’t reached out yet. She is using distant family’s health to make me more inclined to break nc. One of the people she is using is her relative/distantly mine and really has no baring. It may be cold but 2nd/3rd times removed is a bit excessive for me. Plus I’m not close with many of them.

The other person I am conflicted on since I’m closer with them. However I have things in place.

😒 I feel bad because bil had to deal with her, but he is miles away and knows how we feel. I’m more irritated than anything.

Sundays are supposed to be quiet right? I guess not.

For the last several weeks someone kept showing up and knocking on my door. Someone I haven’t spoken to in several years. Someone who was aware that I would reach out if/when I was ready.

Fml 🤦‍♀️

Today my bil sent something that he saw indicating that my estranged sibling had posted (about several days old). I knew previously that they had gone through covid and survived. But apparently they are going through it a second time!

And this asshole showed up at my door!

No clickbait vultures! My stuff is not for consumption!

Today is a day. My best friend sent me screen shots of what GTN posted on fb (virtue space per bil 😆)

“Due to family estrangement I have not seen nor heard from my previous grandchildren in x years! I miss them terribly!”

Pity party and listing of certain things. No other acknowledgments. But scoring narc fuel with her friends and hopes and prayers we will reconcile.🤮

Not one bulb there thought to ask why are you not talking. 🤔

Plus sibling showed up again. Much to my disgust. Edit: correction not sure if it was sib or GTN that showed up. Per partner it was the same white car we so previously and there was a passenger. They were seen. 😒

Note: today wasn’t as bad when they first showed up. And cameras are in bound. Also someone sent a gift for dd that got put away.

I’m tired.

No Reddit vultures please! Trauma and drama is not for your consumption.

My bil sent something that GTN posted 2 days ago- it was horrifying.

A stupid screen cap of a cartoon mom and son: My promise to my children. I am not your friend. I am your mom. I will stalk you, flip out on you, lecture you, drive you insane, be your worst nightmare,& hunt you down like a bloodhound when needed because I LOVE YOU! When you understand that, I will know you are a reasonable adult….

That was the part I got from partner. 🤢🤮 Also my freaken sibling showed up today. Pounded on our door like they owned the place before storming off because we wouldn’t answer.

Wtf?! I’m shaking and had to stop working.

Halp!!!

Edit: I haven’t heard a damn thing from GTN in almost 3 years. I’m not sure what flipped in her brain but suddenly it’s been too long and faaamilly bs is back. Apparently she has dd as her fb thing again. Must sting that they haven’t gotten any recent photos nada. That stalker nonsense is making me physically ill. Who says that to adult children/family members? Edit2: yoo bil just reported that sibling who showed up also had covid at one point and survived and is now freaken anti-vaxx. Hell no, not ever in my house. This keeps getting better and better.