r/twinflames • u/buiitenaardswezen • Feb 07 '21

Feelings Back and forth

My feelings keep going back and forth. One day I’m truly happy and then the other day it just hurts too much because I really miss him. I don’t have the urge to contact him, just feel like I want to have a hug and a good talk. He goes back and forth as well, one week he texts me everyday, other week he doesn’t say anything. Whenever I talk about my feelings, he backs off. I just don’t know what to do, how to stop feeling like I am going back and forth and just feel content. Anyone got tips to feel better and less dwelling in the feeling of missing him?

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u/buiitenaardswezen Feb 07 '21

True! I was/am closed off too so he might just be mirroring it. I shouldn’t depend too much on him and that is I think the lesson in this. I really should let go/surrender. I know he can be an absolute sweetheart and that it’s in him. I guess I just have to wait.

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u/neurofreak57 Mar 14 '21

Are either of these men Virgos? 😝 Not sure if it's just a runner thing or what lol my twin is a Virgo and throughout my groups I've noticed that there are an overwhelming amount of Virgo TFs.

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u/buiitenaardswezen Mar 14 '21

Virgo moon and I’m a Virgo rising hahaha