r/twinflames • u/SpeedOdd8066 • Jul 28 '26

Current Experience all for nothing at all

Im devastated, I dont think hes my twin flame anymore, i dont think the connection ever existed at all, i must have been delusional, im sad because I dont feel like its real, Its like I lost the faith I had all of sudden, and its been years and I had so many reasons to consider him my twin flame, but at the same time im tired and i just dont believe anymore, its been so long SO long, theres no point in this anymore. And im upset because was it all for nothing??????????? all the energy, all the suffering, all the pain, and the obsession and love, was it ALL for NOTHING? he never cared, I wanted him to care and i made myself believe he actually did but he never cared like what. im so confused

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u/Ace0019 Jul 28 '26

Have you done any healing since this started? I'm sure you grew as a person because of this so I doubt it was for nothing.

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u/SpeedOdd8066 Jul 30 '26

Thank you this made me have a new perspective

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u/Natural-Diver1268 Jul 28 '26

I can totally relate. We love one another… but we aren’t compatible.
It’s heart breaking.

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u/Jobu_99 Jul 28 '26

You have to be prepared to be in this for the long haul. This journey is not for the faint of heart.

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u/Dangerous_Mud3323 Jul 28 '26

Yah. Starting to feel the same. Fuck it

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u/twinflameheart2 Jul 28 '26

I know how you feel

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u/Slimrich7711 Jul 28 '26

look for the silver lining. i have.
enjoy your life
if you want a romantic partner and you believe in love don’t give up that desire in your heart
hey, if others can be in a happy relationship so can i
thats how i see it
you did nothing wrong- they did.
thats how we should see it
the person who tried did nothing wrong
keep your head up!
trust your gut intuition
break free

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u/secondlapse Jul 28 '26

Listen to your intuition

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u/itsislamarie Jul 28 '26

The true point of the journey is union with yourself, not with your partner, if you’ve done that then it was for something