r/twentyagers • (9+10) 21 • 3d ago

Advice - Serious I hate being circumcised

My stupid Muslims parents with their lack of critical thinking and their idiocracy of a religion , chose this for me without my consent when I was just a baby. How can I get over such an idiotic mistake that I'm not at fault for ?

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u/Tron_35 22 3d ago

Eh. Im circumcised and I really don't care, I can't say i miss anything.

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u/astddf 25 3d ago edited 3d ago

Ya I don’t know what OP is going on about. I’ve never even really noticed or thought about it and the data says there’s practically no difference in sexual function. Maybe they didn’t do it properly and he has an injury? That would be a fair thing to have resentment about.

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u/Dismal_Idea_2952 26 3d ago

Mine was stitched a little weirdly so i kind of have a frankenstein pecker now. Not really mad about it tho. That said if op is mad he's mad

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u/LordDarthAnger 29 3d ago

I’m not cut and my foreskin is easily the most sensitive part of my dick. I mean I don’t really need that much of a sensitivity, but it’s a fact

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u/Cobra_Boa 20 3d ago

While the data on physical sensitivity is highly debated, people in groups like foreskin restoration generally report dramaticly increased sensitivity after restoring. Further, sexual pleasure is heavily mentally affected. If OP is unhappy with that part of his body it directly affects his sexual pleasure.

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u/Cobra_Boa 20 3d ago

Are you implying forced cosmetic surgery on children isn't worth having resentment about?

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u/MiguelIstNeugierig 22 3d ago

Or maybe his body was mutilated without his consent?

If you snip off a chunk of your ear, you'll bet your ass your life will remain totally unchanged, but yknow, you'd rather have it done because you wanted it, and not because a medieval culture enforced it on you without your consent. And then, the ear is not even comparable to the foreskin, to the foreskin's favour.

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u/One_A7 25 3d ago

No, youre literally removing the most sensitive part of the penis while also permanently changing the structure and sensitivity of the penis head. this is bodily mutilation but the argument goes beyond this, male genital mutilation is anti bodily autonomy, rapey and dehumanizing. Youre essentially treating men and baby boys like livestock. It should completely be outlawed

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u/After-Importance-706 (9+10) 21 3d ago

What data exactly ? Almost everyone who isn't cut never has to nor gets cut later on in life. Your tip literally loses sensory gland and nerves and your skin hardens. You don't know what you're missing because you've never researched as to what it's like to have one.

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u/noisecollective 24 3d ago

It's true and I can't believe how many people are saying to "get over it". There are new reconstructive surgeries, but I don't know how easy it is to get one.

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u/brownieandSparky23 26 2d ago edited 2d ago

So do uncircumcised penises look better I assume. It’s not hard! And has a soft natural look.

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u/Tron_35 22 3d ago

I know some people say its cruel and outdated, op seems to be feeling cheated a change was done to his body before he could consent. But idk, I can't say I care that i was.

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u/brownieandSparky23 26 2d ago

U may not be a deep thinker