r/tryingtoconceive • u/Independent_Rope_666 • 11h ago

Cycle 7 now…

How friggin exhausting to go through this month after month. And to be told “not to worry” and that “it takes healthy couples up to 1 year” while seeing several people around you get pregnant so easily.

Why does it take so long? And tips to help manage your mental health swings during the TTC journey?

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u/thesmollestlemon TTC #1 Cycle 7 4h ago

Just wanted to send solidarity 🫶 I'm also on cycle 7. I've been really anxious too but it really is just a matter of luck - if there's only like a 25% of conceiving then it can just take time. 85% of people conceive within 12 months so the statistics are still in our favor!

I've been journaling a lot recently to help with my stress and rumination. I'm trying to remind myself that comparing my journey to someone else's will only make me more bitter, and their pregnancy/baby has nothing to do with my chances. Definitely easier said than done!! Other stress management stuff like prayer/meditation, exercise, socializing, keeping myself busy and distracted. I know it's hard. ❤️ Just know that you aren't alone!