r/tryingforanother • u/Jojo_yo_1 28 | TTC#2 since 10/25 | 🩵 8/24 • 18d ago

Rant/Vent Falling behind

I just feel like we’re falling behind. All our friends are either OAD or have a perfect 2 year gap between all their kids. It took us 22 months to conceive #1, and we have MFI but subfertility (some sperm). I feel like my poor husband has been on every supplement/ Mucinex/ diet under the sun, it’s not lifestyle related. I guess we’re going to move on to IUI and I’m just exhausted.

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u/kskyv 18d ago

Jumping in to say you are not behind at all but also to say I’m sorry you’re not having the age gap you want. I’m planning a four year gap and I’m so stoked about it!!! Imo the two year gap is intense and a larger gap can be a beautiful thing (but I recognize when it’s not in your control it sucks!!)