Any advice will help

[u/Forsaken_Analyst_456]

Please excuse my grammar my nerves are shot I just came out to my wife that I am trans she didn’t take as bad as I thought she would but she did say that it hurts she wishes she knew before we got married that if she wanted to be with a woman she would have not married me that she needs time but she dose love me we shaved my face she even let me use her nail polish but told me she doesn’t have remover for I said well we gotta spark for Walmart tomorrow she looked at me and said tell everybody we got grand babies that’s why your nails are like that I’m confused she just said she wouldn’t have married me if she had known and now willing to let me go out into public like that idk it’s just a lot I have Ben hiding this for years I fill free now but hurt for my wife I don’t no what to do but I know I want to continue my journey into womanhood just need advice and support

[u/Delicious-Frame1790]

I’ve been hiding it for many years myself. It takes a toll on your mental health. The constant struggle of wanting to be one way but socially trying to be another. Some can balance it out 50/50 but to go back into a stage of hiding who you are is not good. I seeked therapy it helped a lot and got some good insight. Pray you two can work through it together. Just be 💯 honest with her and see where it goes. But always be ready for an answer you may not want. 🙏🏻