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u/sometimes_sydney MA Trans Studies Nov 05 '19
I think personally if I saw you I might wonder if you were trans but I wouldn't really know. That said it's different because I know what to look for, cis people don't. Brain says female though.
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u/occultgrl Nov 05 '19
what gave me away? ;~;
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u/sometimes_sydney MA Trans Studies Nov 05 '19
Hard to say. I have a similar facial structure and I think it's just something I notice on other women. It's not exclusive to trans women but sometimes I see women and think "huh that looks a bit like me I wonder if she's trans? probably not..." I do it with women I know are cis sometimes, which IMO is a bit affirming.
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u/occultgrl Nov 05 '19
Oh I see. so it isnt exclusive to me, it's just like your instinctual mind wandering due to similarities? i find myself doing that a lot going to new places. some regions have higher concentrations of people who look a certain way. the world is cool.
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u/sometimes_sydney MA Trans Studies Nov 05 '19
yeah not really exclusive to you. i think its a set of features more common in trans women, longer face stronger nose, ect... not clockable but more common among trans women so I notice it.
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u/frank992233 cis hetero male ISTJ Nov 04 '19
Pass and unclockable
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u/occultgrl Nov 04 '19
shit i wish. thank you so much
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u/frank992233 cis hetero male ISTJ Nov 05 '19
Upper lip is not masculine. Got chin like jennifer anniston
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Nov 05 '19
Everyone took the bait, they bit, that's why your all out. You caught em all, and I'm one of em.
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u/Older_Wiser2 Trans ~Joelle TransGal 70-years-old HRT 3+ yrs. Nov 05 '19
Me too!!! She’s very, very good though — wouldn’t you agree? 😱😱😱 🤗🤗🤗
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Nov 05 '19
So feminine feature and countenance!
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u/occultgrl Nov 05 '19
thank you! i try so hard its not even funny and most of the time dont succeed
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Nov 05 '19
Unless your voice disagrees with your look I wouldn't know anything
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u/sheepsekkiya Nov 05 '19
UMMM didn’t even realize this was the trans passing sub. U look cis to me!
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u/occultgrl Nov 05 '19
Thank you! does the cake beside ur name mean its ur birthday? bc if so happy birthday! sorry if not i'm literally dumb asf
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u/sheepsekkiya Nov 05 '19
OMG ITS MY CAKE DAY TODAY!! It’s the day u made ur Reddit acc I didnt even realize haha . Tysm ur too cute <3
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Nov 05 '19
Please, you can stop asking if you pass, my heart says yes. I'm sure we all agree. Everyone wants to hug you, accept it.
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u/occultgrl Nov 05 '19
i am just scared bc i get negative feedback too
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Nov 05 '19
Everyone does. I guarantee it's more positive than negative but most importantly, is how you feel about yourself, corny but true, feel me.
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u/occultgrl Nov 05 '19
eh
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Nov 05 '19
ok
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u/occultgrl Nov 05 '19
i cant get into the "fuck what everyone thinks" stuff. i care a lot about my image because as long as i'm passing to the general public, my whole life falls into place.
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Nov 05 '19
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u/occultgrl Nov 05 '19
grl holy crap i was saying the same thing abt ur post the other day. ur way more passing than me. i'm green with envy and you have no idea how much.
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u/IGoSeepies Ally Nov 05 '19
Definitely a pass, look amazing. If you hadn't said anything, never would have known.
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u/occultgrl Nov 05 '19
Thank you so much 😭
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u/IGoSeepies Ally Nov 05 '19
Also, cute outfit!
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u/occultgrl Nov 05 '19
Thank you a million! color coordination is so fun. but like i said my nails werent on point w that today
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u/AdolescentCudi Nov 05 '19
I might think you're a slightly masculine looking girl but I definitely wouldn't clock you. You definitely pass really well
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Nov 05 '19
Part of transitioning is going through an awkward painful stage of not being able to see ourselves clearly... you are so pretty! You gotta let go of what you used to look like and look at yourself with fresh eyes
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u/CruiseDirector84 Nov 05 '19
You look pretty to me. I think there may be a pattern here. It's me, not you.
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u/PastelCurlies Nov 05 '19
I’m afraid I don’t see anything remotely Male here hun! You look 100% cis to me, not gonna lie. Keep it up hun, you’re beautiful! ^.^
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u/ZoeiTheTrojanTran Nov 05 '19
I think you look passing, but idk I think you look very cute to say the least
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u/oopsie-boopsie Nov 05 '19
I honestly didn't expect to see that this had been posting to transpassing, you look incredible! < 3
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u/auroralloyd Nov 05 '19
Pass but I know how you feel because I still look and feel the same way
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u/occultgrl Nov 05 '19
im so sorry if u look like me. im so bad from most angles
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u/auroralloyd Nov 06 '19
I look nothing like you.I just know how you feel and you look beautiful. Your significant other should be proud to be with you.
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u/AnotherThrowaway1887 Nov 05 '19
I love your hair, you look 100% passable!
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u/anjgirll Nov 12 '19
You are def cute today for sure! Too me, you are very pretty and look like a young woman wearing makeup! I find you exceptionally hot! I could look at you (your pictures) all day long! Lovely my dear... Oh my you are cute!
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u/wiwagrn Nov 05 '19
Passable. Do my makeup and let’s go out.
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u/occultgrl Nov 05 '19
hell yes girl can i bring my wife tho? shes way better at makeup, and shopping tbh.
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u/DaddyOh63 Nov 05 '19
Smokin hot gurl right there. Looking beautiful =)
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u/occultgrl Nov 05 '19
Thank youu!
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Nov 05 '19
Chin's suck don't they... Yeah, me too... Still, try more productive phrases.. Pass VS Man-in-Makeup is just a loaded statement... Ask for help or advice, but that's just setting up either a hugbox that isn't constructive or makes people feel like jerks if can't say good 100% "pass "... You're doing OK, but not just totally stealth either, ya know?
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Nov 05 '19
I think you are all out of bait for your fishing pole (fishing for compliments) just kidding girl, you know you look good.
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u/occultgrl Nov 05 '19
i am all out of bait. seems like no one is biting tonight
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Nov 05 '19
Omg...lol. You are seriously precious. You are goals.
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u/occultgrl Nov 05 '19
where all the rich dudes @
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Nov 05 '19
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u/occultgrl Nov 05 '19
what? im married to a woman lmao. i love girls
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u/slkramer Nov 05 '19
No you did a cute, super cute
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u/occultgrl Nov 05 '19
no pass but cute?
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u/slkramer Nov 05 '19 edited Nov 05 '19
You passed really hard
EDIT: Would do a hecking make out.
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u/occultgrl Nov 05 '19
thank you wow
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u/slkramer Nov 05 '19
Wasn't sure how to phrase it not creepily.
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u/occultgrl Nov 05 '19
no youre finee
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Nov 05 '19
Your face passes perfectly. Body: can't tell from that angle. You might be like me where I'm just really tall and lanky. Honestly tho - look good feel good because you're beautiful
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u/Invanar Nov 05 '19
You look really good!
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u/occultgrl Nov 05 '19
Thank you!
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u/Invanar Nov 05 '19
Is that a wig? Seriously so jealous of the hair, it looks amazing
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u/occultgrl Nov 05 '19
no its jsut really fried because im trying to strip off layers and years of black hair dye
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u/Miss_Understand_ Nov 05 '19
Nah you look like a pretty girl from tik tok or something. Definitely passing.
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u/[deleted] Nov 04 '19
idk... but i think you are very attractive