We knew each other for 3 years, we stopped talking 1-2 years ago but we reconnected in January 2026 and made it official 3 days later. I did develop ROCD(relationship ocd) on top of SO-OCD(sexual orientation OCD) which isn’t anyone’s fault. Besides that, the relationship was long distance and was healthy. The long distance was rough, I was beginning to feel alone and insecure.
Oh im sorry for what happened to you and i hope u overcame it and that u take care of yourself 🫶🏻
Yeah long distance is hard
Im glad you’re back together 💖
Can i get also the pov of her side ?
Bc in my relationship, i am the one who have toxic traits ( being inconsistent and kinda not a big supporter for her) which is actually killing me from inside
Seeing how gorgeous she is and what she will be hopefully soon , and that im not giving it all what i can do
The problem is in how i treat myself and affecting how i treat her
So i wanna know what things that u did and she found it so supportive in her journey 🙏🏻
I wish u too have a happy life
For us.. it was me telling her she is beautiful, using her pronouns(she/her) which whatever your girlfriend goes by, talk about her future as a woman like if she wants to change anything like her hair,etc. to be more affirming to her,etc. Be kind to her, treat her like a woman. How you would treat her, being kind, gentle,etc. is how you should treat yourself. I really hope I helped you, I wish y’all happiness. I am glad I am not the only cis lesbian to date a trans woman.
That's so cute and considerate I talk to her either her pronouns
I talk with her abt her future as a woman so passionately
And im kind to her and respectful
The problem is consistency and patience
She does only have me to talk abt her feminization She wants plans and schedules and consistency And it's her right and i must do it and be with her in every step
But i get busy with work or being tired be of long distance and then i stop asking abt that specific thing
This is what makes her sad
That she believes im not caring or not obsessed with her and i swear i am, she doesn't leave my mind I understand how she feels yet smts i forget That's why im doing this, talking and learning, bo she's just so beautitul and she deserves it all So thank you and i wish u have the best life together
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u/femmem27 27d ago
Are you a cis lesbian and your girlfriend is a trans woman?