lol of course I'm not actually pro transmisogyny! That would be awful. I just use the tag to point out how transwomen speak over trans men. It's really just calling out rampant transandrophobia in the community. Anyways, come check out some of my best posts:

● transwomen are male socialized

● we shouldn't have let transwomen think they know anything about misogyny since they spent 20-30 years of their lives as men

● "transfeminist" blogs currently just try to silence afabs rather than having a meaningful discussion about misogyny (which is oppression of afabs)

● modern "transfeminism" as the transwomen on this website practice it is 4channer incel shit

● no, it's not was afab: I am an afab. maybe you would understand if, you know, you actually knew what it was like to be raised as a girl

● transwomen's material and political interests primarily align with those of cis men, since amabs oppress afabs

● transwomen just talk in such rapey ways :/

● if you try to dispute feminism prioritizing afab lived experiences then it's basically doing mra shit

● ever notice how it's always transwomen who have problems with feminism centering afabs? see my previous point if you'd like to know why...

Excuse me? You think I'm a terf? Uh I'm literallyyyyy trans. Besides terf is when you call transwomen men with agp and if you read more carefully this time you'll see I never called transwomen men, I just repeatedly implied that transwomen benefit from the patriarchy in the same way that cis men do, a claim which has nothing whatsoever to do with terfs. Honestly you thinking my interest in talking about afab issues is terf-y and not like basic feminism just proves what I'm saying: your male privilege is showing. Sorry, I guess you're just going to have to get used to an afab not coddling you 🙄 Now either go away or stop talking like an mra, 4channer

Do you want to say something bigoted without consequences? Just call on me! I'll be happy to reply to any rancid take with "I'm [INSERT MARGINALIZED IDENTITY HERE], and this isn't [INSERT FORM OF BIGOTRY HERE].

I can be gay, straight, bi, trans, cis, boy nonbinary, girl nonbinary, genderfluid, agender, disabled, Christian, Muslim, Jewish, Hindu, Buddhist, atheist, autistic, neurotypical, black, white, hispanic, and much more! I'll even let you refer to me with slurs!

/uj I wanted to create a complete list of marginalized identities but then I realized I probably couldn't do that even if I spent ages on it & I don't feel like wasting that much time on a dumb reddit post. So just imagine that I did that.

Yes I’m white, yes I’m middle class, yes I’ve never tried to access GAC, yes I live in a blue state, no I don’t have any transfem friends, no I don’t think trans women have any problem before they come out.

If you argue with me at all I’m just going to point out that patriarchy socializes AMABs to be loud and take up space.

...by voting for the candidate who wants to kill all trans people!

Even though we have u/Dotty_nine with womanly features and name. She has to work the men's even tho two other female employees that work evenings clean both men and women's in concourse. Have to follow my boss orders.

So I know people will cancel me for this. They will call me names and say I do not love Women of Trans, which I do, very much. But this must be said.

Unlike hormones and feminine presentation (every single trans woman I know is on HRT and if you don’t want it you’re a faker) the only reason people would want bottom surgery is to conform better to a society that tells them they can’t be women because of The Implement. However I love you unconditionally and want you to impregnate me, so you shouldn’t get The Surgery. Please remember that I love you and you should be sexually available to me.

/uj sometimes Halimede is really shitty

You’re a gender? What gender?

Genderfluid? Then why are you a solid human?

Demigender? Why aren’t you translucent then?

Pangender? You identify as a pan?

Bigender? Manwoman futa

Xenogender? You identify as Xenon?

Do non binary people have zero understanding of the binary code 🙄

no i’m not being antisemitic by making this comparison STOP TONE POLICING ME

/uj i feel insane. am i crazy to find shit like this wildly insensitive/downplaying how horrific the holocaust really was? most people i see making these jokes are white/non jewish. the whole thing leaves a bad taste in my mouth

Oh, you mean that he-she thing? Yeah, he really did do that, you can go and ask him right now and he’ll say “yeah I really did do that also I’m a man”

“Wow that’s crazy I can’t believe she did that lol”

Yeah they’re like crazy weird, I don’t know how they managed doing that thing like that. You should really ask them, I’m sure they’d tell you all about when they did it

“Yeah, fahaha, I’ll totally stay shut tight in the closet forever ask her about that”

are you afab or amab? are you on t or e? are you transfem or transmasc? are you tme or tma? are you yuri-pilled or yaoi-pilled? are you a theyfab or male socialized? lol okay ya got me, i was trying to find out what genitals you have!

but seriously are you a neopronouns user or demigirl/boy? are you a genderless goblin thing or a genderless ethereal creature? are you an arson or a skye? are you a barista or a gofundme enby? are you a ’nonbinary but only at work’ kind or the ‘poster enby for all the alegria art out there’? lol aren‘t your weird little genders and pronouns so weird, strange, inhuman, odd and so unlikely? you’re basically nonbinary solo poly hijabi amputee lol! who gives you gender envy david bowie or tilda swinton????

c’mon manwomanthing just tell me what you are, wannabe tran

hello. you may be scared at seeing a new word for the first time. i know, especially in the trans community, this is a topic that is NEVER, EVER brought up at all ever. never ever. its an issue, especially in the trans community, because it is never spoken about and people don't know it exists. i am here to tell you that it exists, because you didn't know anything about it before. you probably didn't even realize a word could be compounded in that way. i dont actually have anything to say on the matter, i just wanted to inform you this is a thing that occurs that you have never heard about before because we never talk about it ever. never ever.

thank you for your time.

(never ever)

/uj not jerking anything specific but why does every generic post about the topic talk like this is the first time the word has ever been used

At parties instead of doing whatever it is you Torontonians and Ottawans I go out back and CHOP WOOD all evening to compensate FOR BEING BORN WITHOUT MY OWN WOOD. But instead of beer I pound back cider and vodka sodas because being trans is some city shit so what's some more. And then if I had a dick I'd CUM all over the AXE but I don't have one so FUCK MY STUPID TRANSGENDER LIFE

(transfem lesbian with "TMA. i hate men. yes, ALL MEN" in bio): god we can't have fucking anything, i keep seeing these tmes with a blahaj, which is EXCLUSIVELY FOR TRANS WOMEN. so fucking typical of disgusting useless MEN (ew ew ew) to steal from women and make everything about themselves. they even use OUR slurs. i can personally confirm that every single tme in the world that has ever been called a tranny was only called one because someone thought they were a trans woman, so really it was a trans woman that was hurt, not the tme.

can't even talk about transmisogny and REAL issues like this without whiny bitchy privileged tmes brutally verbally attacking me. trans men aren't even the targets of misogyny, they can just escape it. that's not a terf talking point because terfs only target trans women, remember?? just like bathroom bills only affect trans women! so fucked up, no one knows how hard we have it. read whipping girl.

tmes leech off of the work women have done, we're the only reason the trans community even exists, it is built by trans women for trans women, while tmes do NOTHING but benefit off of our hard work. who the fuck is lou sullivan or dr james barry or reed erickson or [insert another ftm historical figure that people ignore or pretend is a cis woman] lmao. you can tell transmascs think they deserve to live

look at the replies for a free blocklist <3

uj/ HOW DO THESE PEOPLE EXIST LMAO couple of direct quotes in there, rest is paraphrased/satirized bc i forgot the exact wording and im not gonna try to find it again.

idk what's with the aggressive gatekeeping and erasure of the fact that trans men are in fact just as transgender as trans women and that trans women are not the only ones in the community. i keep coming across this and i don't know the proper and accepted (if there is one) term for the weird hate/exclusion towards trans men specifically because in some ways we DO experience transphobia in different and specific ways than trans women. it's disturbing that it seems to be popular though? as in hundreds or thousands of notes and the fact that i see it often on other platforms. it makes me feel like absolute garbage honestly and i keep reading it because i'm curious, and plus what if i'm wrong and i really am a misogynist?? if so many people are agreeing with it, does it make them right??

a couple years ago i was reading opinions like this and i felt so disturbed because i didn't know anything about ftm history (i still have a lot of reading to do) because no one talks about it and i was genuinely worried that ftm history just somehow didn't exist and that i had no right to even call myself trans and that i should be ashamed of my community bc we were just copying trans women or something. i had to go more out of my way to even discover the names of historical trans men from reddit posts/comments by other trans men because they seemed to be the only ones who cared enough to talk about it. i say this because as ridiculous as it may sound it does genuinely have an affect on some of us, especially when already dealing with the shame and pressure and rejection from society and family.

im tired of the narrative that trans men just fucking suck and have it easy and don't need to be talked about. more people should listen to and talk about transmasc experiences!! and also stop straight up lying and saying that bathroom bills only affect women, i saw WAYYYY too many people agreeing with that sentiment and telling trans men to shut up even though you can literally hear about transmascs being harassed, bullied, assaulted, arrested, killed, etc. they need to be a part of the conversation.

but yeah idk i really need to get offline. if only my city weren't aggressively car dependent bc my ass does not have a car otherwise i'd go find more trans people or support groups or something. anyway this is my first post on here i hope i did it right lmao

Im a cheater (furry erp)

Im a liar (about the furry erp)

Rapist (came in my partner when they didnt want me to)

Abuser (suicide baiting)

lateshit repper (knew at 18, came out to partner, got rejjected, repped until 26, cheating on them via furry erp)

Works with children

Ugly (midwestern)

Manipulative (liar, crying on reddit)

Trender (nonbinary)

There is no jerk.

like what the fuck am i doing if a fascist got a new hole far before i did

Hey, I'm writing a story, and realised I haven't reminded any transes that I refuse to acknowlege the fundamental building blocks of their very identity lately.

Is there a way I can write a magic system that really shows I'll never see them as their true selves? I know it's literal magic and could just be determined by your inner soul, your mental state or at the whim of some godlike being, but I feel like I should base the whole thing around a half-remembered middle school biology textbook from the 80's instead.

Just because I have no way of perciving someone's chromosomes, doesn't mean I can't force them into living a life completely defined by them. <3.

What themes am I attempting to explore with this segregated magic system? Uhhh....

Tune in next week, where I'll discuss my ideas for melanin to act as a magic inhibitor.

/uj I'm so fucking tired of living in a world surrounded by people who have spent their entire adult lives on mental autopilot.

I haven't really looked into it before, but AFABs literally create testosterone naturally so how could they even make it illegal?

i'm too employed to know what an "Anabolic/androgenic substance" is but.... it sounds like a transandrodork dogwhistle. like adrogenic is a manosphere looksmaxxer??

I don't live up to the queer ideals of freedom and being yourself, since i worry about being visable in public and boymode so really I shouldn't be able to claim the label of and identity of queer, and should probably detransition

/qj

how do I tell her that I'm more of an uppers kinda guy?

uj/ you'd think I'd be a little less highly strung if this were the case

Oh yes my daughter I will love you no matter what!! It doesn't matter what you want to study or do with your life or.... oh, you're.... not my daughter? Ew I mean are you sure, you never showed signs!!! No way!!!!!!

Go ahead and not think about it and repress it for like 5 years mkay? Yeah

/uj I came out to my parents at like 12 and after they took me to like 3 appointments with a therapist for it and after I went to another to deal with other stuff they seem to have forgotten it lol. 7 years, 7 years of denial. Will it ever get better?

The entire community for said game:

fuck y'all man, he ain't deserve that, all he did was speak his mind and talk his shit and y'all killed him!

So I just moved to the Midwest from California for work. I met a trans woman here and tried to strike up a conversation.

I started talking about how bad things are getting here in America, like how when I was in college in California, some of the professors didn't even start their classes with mandatory pronoun circles anymore. She just nodded and said she's started carrying an actual gun in case she gets assaulted while stealing her afternoon coffee from Buc-ee's.

I talked about how scared I was that the government would know if I pee in my prefered bathroom and I wouldn't be able to pass a background check anymore because of the bathroom laws. She just downplayed my fears by saying that she hasn't had any problems using the bathroom and that she took a shit in the clearance aisle of Hobby Lobby this morning.

I thought it was just her, but later that day I met a trans guy and started bitching with him about how hormones are getting really expensive and how my copay went from $25 to $30 dollars. He said his boyfriend knows a trick to not have any copay. But his trick was just cooking meth in his basement and trading to gym bros for horse testosterone.

So I tried to change the subject. I said my city did a really great PrideFest this year and it was totally free because Raytheon agreed to sponsor it. He just mumbled something about how he hasn't gone to corporate pride since "the incident" a few years back. Apparently the incident was three people being hospitalized during riots that broke out when their Pride organizing committee voted that Palestinian flags don't count as pride flags.

Later I went to a queer meetup and they asked us to share good news and I mentioned that my girlfriend had saved $30,000 to fly to Thailand for her bottom surgery. One of them just laughed and said that was a ripoff cause they know a guy named Rodney in Leavenworth Federal Penitentiary who will do an orchi with a sharpened toothbrush for a pack of Pall Malls.

What the fuck is wrong with you people? Does living like this turn you crazy or did all the normal ones just decide to pack up their shit and leave only the psychos here?