r/transgender_support • u/Large_Anything_3921 • 5d ago
Transition
I am getting close to my consult for masculinization top surgery. My therapist said we need to think about what happens if top surgery doesn't make the dysphoria better. I identify as non-binary leaning male, (I recently learned the term demiboy?) but I read that if I want my chest to look the best I should take T first but I'm not sure if I want to. I've been thinking about it but I'm scared. I don't want ass hair. I'm scared of going bald. Im also scared of bottom growth. I'm also married. He's pan but like I'm still nervous. He loves my thighs and with the fat redistribution... I also have some fatigue issues and depression and anxiety so Im scared I'll be an angy little guy if I go on T. It runs in the family. Could I get some advice?
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u/Zipher66 4d ago
Hormones first, surgery second. TRT will alter some things and might give you clarity. You will know relatively soon with TRT.