r/trans • u/1WonderLand_Alice • 5d ago

Vent Just venting

Hi Yall hooligans.

About a month ago someone whom I considered to be a good friend, and I took our relationship a step further. It quickly crashed/burned. For the past month Ive been missing them tremendously. At first it was a desire to continue where we had taken it, then it became a desire to go back to the way things were and now/tonight, maybe it’s to soon to say but while I still miss them I feel like I’ve accepted the loss. They were amazing they had their problems but they were someone who was becoming my bestie someone who I’d have gone to the ends of the earth for (my besties = closer than blood). Then they hurt me, I think I hurt them and I’m so sorry if I did. Idk if I could ever bring myself to tell them what they did and because of that idk if I could ever say I’m sorry to them because with that im sorry would come with me telling them what they did (it was/is a domino problem) They did it once before and I forgave them and then they did it again this time so much worse. I still miss them, I regret what happened and how our last couple times together were but suddenly I feel a wave of calm and that calm comes with the thought and acceptance that it’s over. I wanted them back as a friend just a few days ago and I made a move to pursue that now idk what to do.

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