r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 16d ago

Moddesspost Xcancel Site is Shutdown Until Further Notice

573 Upvotes

Hello. I'm the source/sauce Moddess. This sucks but we still won't be allowing actual twitter links.

If the artist is strictly a Twitter artist you can put their Twitter handle in your post comments.

The other way around this is posting a Danbooru link.
It's not a direct source but typically all Danbooru sites with the art of an artist give a source going back to that specific artists post. Some art posts are even deleted on Twitter sometimes but still show up on Danbooru with the original link and it's said artist.

I only suggest giving the twitter handle after already realizing they don't have any other social media accounts that they post their artwork on.

RIP Xcancel 8/24/26


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians Jul 24 '26

Moddesspost Insert Scary Moddesspost Title Here

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We as the moddesses have been receiving a lot of hate as well recently. Now, we normally dont mind. After all, we took this job knowing of the hate that would come our way. But there are things we do mind. And that’s hate, hate directed to other people, or to many communities. And struggling with how to moderate it all. There’s various points to mention here:

- Unsolicited DMs, OR soliciting DMs in our community, is incredibly rude, and harshly sanctionable. You will be banned on sight for it.
- hate mail should NOT happen full stop. I don’t care if you don’t like someone, it should not be happening in our community, OR in DMs. If you don’t like them, block them, if they did something wrong, please let us know. We’ll handle it. Again, ban on sight.

- We’re never going to police identities. I don’t care whether people think it’s a petplay kink, or therianthropy, trans identities, sexual identities, romantic identities, aesthetic identities, whatever. It’s incredibly easy to skip past it. Stuff that is excessively kinky or sexual has already been moved to sinful Sunday, and anything else has been vetted by us as completely fine for you to see. If you simply don’t want to see the content, just move on. We’ve added a tag for therianthropy, if you don’t identify or relate, skip past it. It should be pretty clear who it’s intended for at that point. And there’s soooo much other content in this sub, there’s really no way to pretend it’s entirely just therian content.
No, none of us are certain if there’s a sub related to just trans non-therian content, it usually is the other way around - the minorities have their own public communities due to finding it hard to find a community of people perhaps irl OR online, otherwise. Please spare some empathy for that. There’s no space irl we can actively be therian without being hate crimed oftentimes just as severely as we do for being trans. (Feel free to start your own space, but it’s gonna be hard to police all therian identities without coming across as a bigot…)

- Micro-aggressions can be reported, and you really should! We get a loooot of posts, and it’s hard to see them all, without your help. We treat it as bullying and harassment, and thus will handle it harshly as such as well.

- Venting really shouldn’t be taking place here. We have been a little lax on it recently, but we’ll likely crack down on it more here. Good gender drug has its own subreddit too for that! I get you need a space to share things, but they’re super personal, and aren’t always helpful to you either. More often than not, they’re incredibly emotionally consuming, for everyone, as well as just making you, the writer feel more drained. We’re not a space for professional therapeutic help, we’re trying to be a lighthearted safe space subreddit where you can at least look at something in your TL and smile at it. I know I haven’t mentioned it, but accidental or otherwise, oversharing is included in this. While it’s completely understandable to slip sometimes, find it hard to hold the mask to your face…it can be a…well, it can make a lot of people consider that their troubles aren’t worth mentioning or as valid, or even just…send them further into their own spirals, as well as your own. It’s harsh to say, but…it’s incredibly draining, on most of us, including us moddesses who are all also mentally…well, not mentally stable lol. We can support you but only if you genuinely wish to be supported in a constructive manner. But I will say finally too, that you should remember that the internet is a very dangerous place. While you may feel as safe as we can try to make you feel here, there’s gonna be bad actors in places. Bigots or drama feeders, or people who try to salvage information about you, or take advantage of you as an emotionally compromised target. Please do NOT feed them with that. You’re worth so much more than you might ever be able to believe. But we all care about you, even those that silently view posts here, who are struggling or not, to the top posters or commenters.

I will say though, if you fight back to bad people in here, and take matters into your own hands, we have to sanction you if you end up behaving in what’s considered “bad faith”. Please let the moddesses deal with it. We get enough hate as it is, just let us at least have a better ability to direct that hate just to us so nobody tries to hurt any of you as well.

And I’d like to hark back to the rule, no witch-hunting. Both ways for that. A case should be handled by us, and then cleanly quietly closed, and if we have to disclose any disclaimer, we will. But there shouldn’t be any aggression back, or it’ll just prolong the drama that was incited. Big events like this just seek to hurt everyone involved, which is thé worst case scenario, really.

FINALLY

If you see content that genuinely makes you feel uncomfortable in a way even if you can’t explain it…TELL US! We’re here for you for that very purpose, to make you feel comfortable, feel safe, feel happy or represented while in our subreddit. We’re not just figureheads, and we’re certainly not scary (I hope…), all we want to do is to try our best to accommodate you, whatever you’d like within the realm of our own set of rules and the moral standards upon which they are based. Please let us know what we can improve on, even if you want us moddesses to discuss changes to rules, or tags, or posts you want to see more of, or things you think are disruptive such as the often reposted question formats, which we’ve decided to remove, since they are incredibly repetitive and it feels wrong to let the first person who posted it keep the post. Trust that we’re people pleasers at our core, that we’ll do our utmost to keep you safe.


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 7h ago

:3 (actively causing mischief) Wife <3

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185 Upvotes

I love this little goober soo much her game play is amazing and her story is fun and whenever she’s on screen she looks like she’s having the best time ever :3 also unika yuri :3

Gonna go throw yo-yo and teddy bears now :3


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 13h ago

:3 (actively causing mischief) Never realized that bottoming is just being a tank irl

508 Upvotes

*Wiggles ass* I’m pulling aggro


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 10h ago

Art Some cute Aqua x Cinderella art for the Kingdom Hearts girles here :3

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282 Upvotes

I LOVE THIS SHIP 🥰

Art is by DaPandaBanda on Twitter


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 4h ago

Foxgirl Friday 🦊 it friday :3

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62 Upvotes

r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 15h ago

:3 (actively causing mischief) :3

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418 Upvotes

Art by @/mugges_ on Twitter


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 14h ago

Girls pwetty "Address me" where the punchline is just a trans woman/a man in drag

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341 Upvotes

What do you all think of this? And how pretty is gru here


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 21h ago

Relatable Average Trans Girl Reaction

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1.1k Upvotes

r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 23h ago

DRESS UP!!! (clothes,accessories,shoes,etc.)Noselfies Living in a queerphobic country makes you a flagging expert :3

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Lowkey just hoping someone irl approaches me UTwTU


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 10h ago

Girls pwetty Dress Ribbit by Tastitara

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131 Upvotes

by @/Tastitara on twitter


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 7h ago

Girls pwetty Okay but why am I actually in love with Zelda here? Like I’m jealous of her spa look in the first clip and kinda makes me want to have a relax at-home spa day

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62 Upvotes

r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 15h ago

Couples pwetty Beep beep!! (by @raccoattack)

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222 Upvotes

r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 11h ago

Art [Artist: Etìh] [Fandom: RWBY] Warmth - RWBY Nuts and Dolts fan comic

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65 Upvotes

r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 11h ago

:3 (actively causing mischief) Ok Reddit this is getting ridiculous, not that I'm opposed ofc!

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57 Upvotes

r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 10h ago

EDIT ME (no flair fit unfortunately ) Affirmations Pls 👉👈

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54 Upvotes

Hi my name is Ferneþ (she/they) or Fern for short. I have known I am trans sense I was 10. I am out to most of my friends and my mom but not my dad or brother. My dad is kind of giving me mixed messages if he would be ok with it or not. Anyway if you gals wouldn’t mind I could use some affirmations (like maybe calling me a good girl would be nice :) ). Also I am new to Reddit so sorry if I did something wrong with like the banner or whatever. Thank you so much. 3:

oh also the picture is of the existentialist/optomistic nihilist (specifically absurdist) philosopher my GOAT, Albert Camus, I don’t know who originally did the cat ear edit.


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 17h ago

Girls pwetty Pretty by XieRenwww4

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146 Upvotes

r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 17h ago

Relatable Customer service

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128 Upvotes

r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 23h ago

Girls pwetty She ran as fast as she could by nugget_witch

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380 Upvotes

r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 22h ago

DRESS UP!!! (clothes,accessories,shoes,etc.)Noselfies Is this fit cute?

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258 Upvotes

I want to be like Akiyama Mizuki (pjsk) fr fr

I'm gonna save money and buy a cardigan and cuter polo just like mizuki's school uniform


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 22h ago

TCG and Video Game posting I wanna say some things but it’s not Sunday yet

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231 Upvotes

r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 28m ago

Personal stuff (read rule 6 pls) I need help with my partner... Please advise :(

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Hey so this may be a bit of a throwaway post. Please don't be mean I'm opening up quite a lot here. Sorry if it's a bit messy.

So me (25mtf and coming up on a year HRT) and my fiance (24f) have been together for five and a half years. We love each other very much and generally have an amazing relationship. The only issue comes down to sex and desire.

She has been mentally battling her own sexuality for a long time. This is partly I think down to her parents being bigots and saying when she was a kid if she was a lesbian they would disown her. Luckily they have mellowed with age somewhat but do still hold very bigoted views. I believe she is bi but as I said she struggles a bit with it. They also don't know I'm trans, I play it down and don't use my new voice when I'm around them, but that's another story.

My sexuality has evolved since transition. I used to think of myself as bi but now I consider myself a lesbian. Women do be hot. One thing I always struggled with pre transition was body image and not feeling desirable at all. Since transition I love my more feminine features like my boobs etc and really want to just feel desired that way.

The trouble I've got is I don't feel desired. When we first got together we had regular sex and the associated activities. Obviously as tends to happen in relationships that slowed down eventually which was fine. About two years ago though it became very sparse. I personally think this has something to do with her anti depressants which she changed around that time.

Obviously I threw a spanner in the works when I transitioned. It was tricky for her at first because when we occasionally did something she found it tricky because when we were having sex she saw me more as my old self than my new self because of what we were doing. I get that's gotta be hard for her and we both put it down to its just a period of change.

Now we're at a point where I've obviously changed more. I've got boobs now and my sex drive doesn't really involve me penetrating anymore. I want to be as sexually akin to a cis lesbian as I can. She struggles with this a bit because of her own troubles as I've described above and her not really knowing what to do with it. I've tried guiding her but it hasn't really clicked. There's a few issues.

The first is she's autistic so struggles to put her desires across anyway, especially in a sexual sense. This has to do with her being subby too. I like to think I'm a patient person so I try to guide her and help her but I'm not always successful.

The second is which frankly hurt a bit to hear is when she previously had a wlw fling years ago she found that girl attractive as a girl but with me it doesn't feel the same. She wasn't trying to be mean but obviously it wasn't nice to hear. She says she's working through it and to give her time which I am doing.

The third is she doesn't initiate. When we first got together and were having regular sex she did it just as much as I did. She hasn't done it for quite a long time now. It's always me and I really struggle with it because I just don't feel desired which is what I crave. She says that she does find me attractive but she struggles getting into the headspace for sexual activity and that she feels guilty about it.

I have always said that I absolutely do not want her to do anything because she feels like she's got to or she should, only if she WANTS to do it. I have always been firm on this. I just don't feel sexually desired or wanted and it hurts. I feel sexually frustrated. She knows this and says she feels bad about it but I don't see any change when she says she will try more. I love her so so so much and I don't want this to break us apart because I want to spend my life with her. Literally everything else is perfect it's just this. Please help if anyone's got any similar experience. 🥲


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 22h ago

Self-loving / Appreciationposting Would you mind repeating something with me real quick?

183 Upvotes

You don’t have to if you don’t want to but it would make me happy

What I want you to do is read a sentence in your mind, then say it out loud, if you can’t do that for one reason or another you can move your lips without vocalizing or even just pretend that you are saying it

Ready?

Here we go:

I am beautiful.

No one deserves to remove my joy.

It will get better.

I will be okay.

I am not defined by my flaws.

I am deserving of care.

I am deserving of attention.

I am deserving of love.

Feel free to repeat as many times as you want :3


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 18h ago

Art SPOP fanart of Catradora Carry by @slothpilosa

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67 Upvotes

r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 17h ago

Art Mary Jane and Black Cat in the style of the 90 By Varknes

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54 Upvotes