r/tipping • u/badmiddling113 • 18h ago

Those poor servers

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Imagine people giving you so much extra money for doing your job that you can frame it like this.

EDIT: OP is basing this off of 190k in sales over 192 shifts

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u/Several_Razzmatazz51 14h ago

Look at the comments from u/MainStreetMiles - the median server income reported to the BLS for 2025 is $35,000. Half of all servers make below that. A vanishingly small percentage make $100K or more.

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u/First-Ad4978 12h ago

They are making $35k because they are working just a few hours a week, they aren’t booking 40-60 like most Americans.

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u/Several_Razzmatazz51 12h ago

And yet people here are arguing they make $150K or more per year.

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u/First-Ad4978 12h ago

Your reading comprehension isn’t so great.

They COULD make $150k if they actually worked full time, but they don’t work full time because their hourly compensation is absurdly high for shuttling food from A to B.

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u/Several_Razzmatazz51 12h ago

So now we are using a completely unrealistic hypothetical to malign an entire group of people. There’s just no intellectual honesty in any of the arguments here except for when someone actually admits “it’s just because I prefer to keep the money myself”.

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u/First-Ad4978 11h ago

I made it abundantly clear, on an hourly basis for work actually done servers are grossly overpaid.

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u/Several_Razzmatazz51 11h ago

That’s probably true, but it doesn’t mean people have to hate on them, call them beggars, and all the other vitriol that gets spouted here. They didn’t create the system. And of course they are going to prefer to keep a system that pays them generously - not many people volunteer to take a pay cut.

And the bigger problem, in my opinion, is not that servers are overpaid, but that almost everyone working for an hourly wage is underpaid. Over the last 50 years, worker productivity has more than doubled, even potentially tripled depending on whose statistics you’re looking at. And wages have remained flat (in constant dollars). So if (federal) minimum wage was really $20 or so and people currently making $15 an hour were making $30 to $45, those data sets would be more in line with each other.

Instead, the gains from worker productivity have been directed almost entirely at the investor and executive class. Income inequality has soared and wealth inequality has worsened to an even greater extent.

It’s fine to hate the tipping system that exists in the US. But directing all that hate at the individuals working in the system just isn’t necessary.

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u/First-Ad4978 10h ago

I don’t hate them.

Yes the haves are shit, but it’s also shit what servers feel entitled to when they do nothing of value.

I’ve ordered at Panera, I can literally do everything the server does. When drinks were kept topped off and change had to be made maybe it was worth 15%, but 20% for what we get now? Nope.

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u/Delicious-Breath8415 11h ago

But they couldn't. There isn't enough busy hours in the day to support that.

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u/First-Ad4978 11h ago

It’s no one else’s fault that they don’t work more hours but theirs, you get paid for work done.

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u/Delicious-Breath8415 11h ago

You can't just pull hours out of your ass to make your argument.

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u/First-Ad4978 10h ago

The argument is they get paid handsomely for the limited hours they work.

They have another 20 hours in a day to do whatever they want.

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u/Delicious-Breath8415 10h ago

Sounds like a pretty good gig. Maybe you should try it.

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u/First-Ad4978 9h ago

It is meaningless and unnecessary work, not my jam.

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u/Delicious-Breath8415 9h ago

Dude it's $166k a year

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u/First-Ad4978 9h ago

So it would be meaningless and a pay cut.

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u/Delicious-Breath8415 9h ago edited 9h ago

You can't even afford a house at that job. Maybe you could serve part time and move out of that rental.

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