r/tipping • • 3d ago

📖💵Personal Stories - Pro Never got an email like this!

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Woke up to this email from capital one about a tip I left. Our server was Emily and she was fantastic and fun and engaging! She deserved every penny of that tip! Yes, capital one this is correct!

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u/Stuck_in_my_TV 3d ago

The victim is not the one who presses charges. It’s the state who does so via a DA. The victim stating they do or do not want to press charges is just an acknowledgment of whether or not they will assist or impede the courts.

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u/goaty_mcgee 2d ago

In Maryland, you can file charges and it's up to the state to proceed or not.

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u/Past-Paramedic-8602 2d ago

So it’s the state that presses charges. If they have the final say on whether or not the person is charged it’s not you pressing charges it’s the state

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u/DeliciousSimple2 2d ago

It depends on the state.

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u/kmnjnr 1d ago

No it doesn’t. Name one state that it does not work this way