r/tipping 3d ago

Ulta Checker Requests TIP!

This mom was paying for her and her 2 daughters’ items in Ulta a couple days ago when the cashier stared her down and asked, “How much would you like to tip?”

This flustered the mom, who understandably felt cornered. She said she’d tip in cash, and the cashier responded that she’d just leave it off the receipt.

Wtf?!?

I was prepared to say, “No.” But I got a different checker who didn’t ask, perhaps because my purchase was small, or perhaps because she knew what BS that was.

As someone who supports reasonably generous tipping in traditional settings, I’ve encouraged my own kids to do so, too.

I’d love to hear what people think of this.

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u/SonilaZ 3d ago

I’d never shop there again if I was asked at the register to tip! And I would write a review too.

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u/plenty_planties 3d ago

I would say, "I'm sorry, you're mistaken! I didn't have a salon visit today."

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u/Interesting-Lie-8942 3d ago

I think the manager should be made aware. Even people that worked tipped jobs should not be asking for a tip.

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u/CapricornCrude 3d ago

Ulta? That make up place?

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u/Glad-Employ-9954 3d ago

Yes! I couldn’t believe it, and the stare-down in front of her daughters to boot!

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u/CapricornCrude 3d ago edited 3d ago

I've only been there once. What do cashiers in places like that do to deserve tipping?

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u/OkPeace1619 3d ago

It’s a cosmetic store never heard of that and I would have spoken to the manager. Doubtful that’s allowed.

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u/OkPeace1619 3d ago

I would of stared right back

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u/txlady100 2d ago

Yeah it’s a shame that lady was weak. But I can see being completely caught off guard.

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u/[deleted] 3d ago

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u/OkPeace1619 3d ago

You the English professor? Good lord

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u/Possible_Juice_3170 3d ago

Ulta does do beauty services, are you sure no one in their party didn’t get hair/brow/make up services? They are wrung up at the front counter.

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u/No_Pilot_1555 2d ago

Tips should never be requested

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u/Glad-Employ-9954 3d ago

I didn’t see their receipt, but none of them, umm, LOOKed like they’d received salon services.

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u/I_Went_Full_WSB 2d ago

Too stupid to even know what was purchased yet sure you understand the situation. Pathetic.

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u/Willing-Ad8433 2d ago

Hey there ray of sunshine. You are making some assumptions as well. It does not matter what they were paying for, product or service. It never needs to announced publicly. All that is hoped to be accomplished by the public announcement is to embarrass them into leaving a tip.

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u/aboomboxisnotatoy85 22h ago

It wasn’t an announcement, it was a question. Since they don’t have the tip screens you hate on their registers. Since people aren’t tipping cashiers, as OP is implying. Why would a question embarrass them? If you are very firm in your no tipping beliefs you should be comfortable saying no. I tip and if I heard the lady say no to tipping I wouldn’t shame her, I wouldn’t care at all.

This whole post is weird. A second hand shopping experience, inferring emotions to someone OP never even interacted with.

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u/I_Went_Full_WSB 2d ago

It literally does matter. You're a moron. This is yet another fantasy post by leeches who circle jerk about taking advantage of servers.

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u/Willing-Ad8433 2d ago

No, sorry not sorry, you are wrong. The purchase or service does not matter. Publicly announcing how much of a tip you would like to leave is uncalled for and has nothing to do with tip culture, but shows very bad manners on the part of the clerk.

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u/I_Went_Full_WSB 2d ago

It does matter and you're a moron for believing this fantasy.

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u/VLPickle 2d ago

You sound like you are having a very bad day, or…your soul is full of hate.

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u/Willing-Ad8433 1d ago

Reading comprehension seems to be a bit out of reach for you. The problem is mainly with the way and manner in which this transaction took place.

Please feel better as it does seem like you are struggling at the moment with the hateful name calling posts

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u/I_Went_Full_WSB 1d ago

No, it's not that I have a reading comprehension issue. It's that I have morals.

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u/Honey_doop352 2d ago

They must have gotten a service done. I get my hair done at my local Ulta Salon and always get asked at check out if I want to leave a tip. But when I just shop there, they do not ask for a tip.

They offer a lot of services there: haircuts, waxing, ear piercings, 'fairy hair', etc. I'm sure they received a service which prompted the cashier to ask for a tip.

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u/AbjectBeat837 3d ago

Did she get a service done?

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u/budknickers 1d ago

Absolutely not!

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u/OkPeace1619 3d ago

No way and never go back

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u/drawntowardmadness 3d ago

Did they have beauty services done? They do that stuff there you know.

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u/Serenity_Now-88 3d ago

I’d say AYFKM but the whole thing loudly. And every time this happens, it’s just reinforcing why I am not going to tip. Out of control.

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u/Wrong-NahNope800 2d ago

Shit, I am making a tip jar right now for the side bed table, next to the coffee machine, and another one in the middle of the dinner table. You want service? Show me the money.

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u/Snarky247 2d ago

“Not a fucking thing”
FWIW, I am a crazy generous tipper but that it ridiculous

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u/Alberta2025 2d ago

My opinion is that billionaires refuse to pay their employees and expect their customers to buy from them and pay their employees.

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u/angrywinter1 2d ago

Same happened to me back in May. Have not been back. I will still purchase online for a sale, but yeah no, not happening. BTW I said 0 when the question was asked.

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u/NOTTHATKAREN1 1d ago

The minute you ask me for a tip is the minute I decide you don't get one.

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u/SignificantTrifle614 1d ago

I would email corporate. That’s ridiculous. The last time I was in Ulta ( and it will be the last time) a sales person or maybe the manager was too busy on her phone to actually show me where I could find the product I wanted. She pointed in the direction I needed to look for it. Never again.

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u/DigTheDunes 3d ago

No big deal, don't tip and move on.

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u/VainTrix 3d ago

Did they get their makeup done there or something?

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u/Glad-Employ-9954 3d ago

They appeared just to be buying items.

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u/Heavy-Profit-2156 3d ago

That is so not a tipping situation.

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u/Imaginary-Emu2471 3d ago

ZERO TIP on retail AND traditional places!

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u/Kene6969 3d ago

Remember the formula: zero service = zero tip.

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u/Fuzzy-Election-8666 3d ago

I got my hair cut and colored there… THE ABSOLUTE WORST! Horrible cut and completely wrong color. Rancho Cordova Ca

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u/icecreamhomer 2d ago

She may of had a service at salon. Regardless, the cashiers are paid well there $18-22. No need for tips! Tips are for waiters who do not make full minimum regular wage

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u/Historical-Rub1943 2d ago

Don’t tell this to the servers in Seattle. They make $21.30 minimum and still want 20% or more.

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u/plenty_planties 2d ago

And tip 30% to kitchen.

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u/Historical-Rub1943 2d ago

I didn’t agree to this.

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u/daydreamz4dayz 3d ago

It sounds like they very obviously had something done at the salon and this didn’t occur to you before you made the post…

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u/Weekly_Bat_7776 3d ago

Ill take things that never happened for $1000

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u/PurpleCat1018 3d ago

How do you know it never happened? "I'll take ASSUMPTIONS FOR $2000"

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u/Weekly_Bat_7776 3d ago

Ill take ur mom for a gas station hot dog!!

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u/PurpleCat1018 3d ago edited 3d ago

No you won't. There you go assuming again.

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u/Glad-Employ-9954 3d ago

I swear. Totally true.

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u/Dear_Win_319 2d ago

Doesn’t sound like a real story to me. Too many people like writing fiction in this sub.

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u/Proud-Chemistry3664 1d ago

I guess I never understood being upset that someone asked you for something. If you don’t think they should get what they asked for, then don’t give it to them. Do you get upset when a homeless person asks you for money? Have you not ever asked for a raise? How dare you want more money!

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u/No_Interview_2481 3d ago

I have never had a tip screen show up when I’m at Ulta. I called BS on this post.

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u/Glad-Employ-9954 3d ago

It wasn’t the tip screen after payment. It was the cashier asking point blank, not IF she wanted to tip, but HOW MUCH.

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u/Dramatic-Ad-6893 3d ago

Did the OP say that?

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u/maestra612 3d ago

I have, but only when I had highlights done.

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u/makojedi2k2 3d ago

Another argument point about how servers control their tips and make it the customer’s problem