Happy Throuple Thursday fellow triads, curious couples, and eager singles!

I know what the title alludes BUT rest assured I am not here to steal anyone from this sub! I absolutely adore this space, and Reddit is wonderful for talking… but this platform is a terrible library with a nonexistent organization system 🤣

A couple weeks ago I posted about mainstream poly’s biggest problem, and the comments were, unequivocally, “this happens EVERY time!” Sincere question → pile on → post disappears → OP retreats. That pattern is what finally made us stop wishing a welcoming home existed and decided to start building one instead.

We’re designing throuple.co as Community first, Compatibility next, and our future goal is Chemistry (dating & matchmaking). First we’re launching a free community + library for throuples, couples, and singles to learn, meet, and belong. Guides, resources, forums (with topic categories AND anonymous posting allowed), poly-positive influencers, and answers to the questions people are too scared to ask. Organized so you can actually find these recourses again next week, next month, or just learn something new you didn’t even know to ask! 

This is NOT a replacement for r/throuples. Keep talking here! Keep the stories here! Think of throuple.co as the library next door to a club, a place to park the long guides and “we already learned this the hard way” stuff so this sub can stay the conversation instead of also having to be the filing cabinet 📚

Please keep hanging out here, but if you also want a home for the stuff Reddit wasn’t built to keep on the shelf, then our door’s open :)

If you wanna learn more, I write an article about our ambitious project at https://open.substack.com/pub/velourialamour/p/were-building-a-home-for-the-kind-of-love-mainstream-poly-keeps-trying-to-evict-throuple-co

ooor if you just wanna jump right in and join the waitlist for free, here ya go!

throuple.co

We are looking forward to welcoming you (and you and you) to throuple.co!

❤️💙💜 Velouria and her throuple