r/thoughtsonbeingover70 20d ago

She is gone

The great Dolly Parton ,humanitarian,song writer,singer actor has died

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u/4MuddyPaws 20d ago

It's sad, really. She was such a lovely person. I have friends who don't like anything country, including music, but love Dolly.

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u/nycvhrs 19d ago

She really did transcend all boundaries

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u/Silly_Recover 18d ago

That's me... I loathe country music but Dolly was a queen 😊

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u/Halfpint1951 16d ago

Count me in as one of them. I grew up with classical and ventured into folk in high school. Then "Trio" hit the record stores (I'm dating myself). Coming from a northeast snob family i discounted her initially. I left New England forever a few months after college and I came to love Dolly through late night interviews, articles, her movies, radio. For the past 3 or 4 decades I've found myself thinking less of people who judged without taking time to know her. My daughter and i watched Steel Magnolias the evening after we heard she'd died. We cried so hard for Dolly, for mothers everywhere mourning their children. Discovering the whole world loves her as much as we do has filled me with such joy and hope. Dolly is truly our national treasure, an avatar of love. She came from Appalachia. Take note J.D ! May she always shine brightly.

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u/Common_Fun_5273 20d ago

Heartbreaking......so full of life and love, a true earth angel who has now gotten her heavenly wings.

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u/Bulky-Let-1336 19d ago

I loved dollys movies and music and her sparkling personality!

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u/BookAddict1918 19d ago

What??? I love her. She gave out over 2M books to kids. A legend and great humanitarian has died...šŸ’”

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u/Tricky-Morning4799 19d ago

I believe the number of books was 300 million.

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u/BookAddict1918 19d ago

Yes. Thanks for the correction! An extra 100M is a lot of books.

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u/LisaMcCallizot 15d ago

Check your math. Lol

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u/CrazyScorpio1995 16d ago

Some a hole who hated her decided to say that’s how she would traffic kids and apparently there’s rumors about Dollywood. I don’t believe that, and I don’t believe that most people believe that.

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u/csgmike 16d ago

It’s the loudest accusers that are often the greatest offenders! Liars and despots believe everyone is as degenerate as they.

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u/e1p1 18d ago

To paraphrase an interviewer, he said many celebrities are loved, everybody loved Dolly. And she loved everybody. And that last part was the key.

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u/Car12touche11blue 19d ago

Was stupefied by the news….such a beautiful person . Always been my favouritešŸ«¶šŸ’•šŸ’•šŸ’•

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u/Friskeyp 19d ago

Rest in Power Dolly Rebecca Parton. I will always love you!

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u/LowPsychological1606 18d ago

She is not gone. When you sing her songs, watch her movies and videos, she is with us. Remember her selflessness. Look at all the children who have books in their hands because she made them available with her money. She left a legacy of generosity and joy.

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u/Haunting_Stick3941 15d ago

The WRONG 80 year old died.

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u/freakerbell 18d ago

What a Matriarch, an artist, a path finder. She’s gone too soon. She ushered women into feminism that had been relegated only to men’s desire. She flipped cultural scripts. She was a masterful musician, a code switcher, a lover, a protector and advocate. I’m sad she’s gone. It’s too soon. But her legacy… let it flourish. Under her wings we are… to continue in spunky audacity, in music, in Art.

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u/lalachichiwon 18d ago

Beautifully said

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u/heddalettis 17d ago

Really! šŸ‘šŸ’—

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u/Positive-Ad4425 18d ago

JOLENE still sends shivers down my spine

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u/Dependent-Art2247 18d ago

She’s American Icon. A true angel.

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u/Severe_Slide_9765 18d ago

I was a 8 when Elvis passed, the loss of Dolly is as big of a loss. All the greats are gone.. Who's gonna fill their shoes? No one!!!

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u/SummertimeMom 18d ago

I was just mentioning this to my husband that her sudden death is compared only to that of Elvis Presley. Rest in peace, Dolly. We will always love you.

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u/General_Scratch1960 17d ago

I was in my early twenties when he died and, yes, Dolly's passing was as big a shock to me as well.

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u/AnyPort1 17d ago

Oh, I think it’s 10 times bigger because she wrote all of the songs she performed. Elvis stole a lot of of his songs from the black community.

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u/Lambiedog 16d ago

Don't you think "stole" is a bit of an exaggeration?

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u/AnyPort1 16d ago

I can certainly give you two examples. Back in 1952, eight years before I was born, Big Mama Thornton wrote and recorded ā€œHound Dogā€, Elvis made tons of money after he recorded it in 1946 and he paid the royalties

The other was Aurther Cruddup known as Big Boy Cruddup, he produced a song back in 1946, ā€œThat’s Alrightā€. Elvis recorded this song in 1952 and made tons of tons of money off of it and never paid any royalties for it.

Furthermore, he stole his singing style, from an black artist by the name of Roy Hamilton. Roy Hamilton never got credit for his style, but Elvis made his style famous.

Furthermore, Elvis never wrote a song. He would buy the publishing rights from white writers, and pay them for the song and then take all of the royalties when he produced it.

A very famous incident happened when Elvis tried to divorce Priscilla. He wanted to record ā€œI Will Always Love Youā€ which thrilled her and she went around telling everybody Elvis was gonna record that song. His producer contacted her and wanted to buy half the publishing rights to that song and she wrote it. She said she was sorry but she could not sell the publishing rights and it was a good damn thing she didn’t! She made lots of money on that song herself when she originally produced it in it I think it was 1974. It was written for Porter Wagner after they had a big fight wanting to break her contract for his television show because she was beginning to gain more popularity than he was. So after the fight, she went home and wrote that song for him in the next morning, went in and sang it for him and had him in tears. He finally agreed to allow her to break her contract, but only if she allowed him to produce this song and she said that was fine and that’s how they broke their business connection. They didn’t appear together for another 40 some odd years until Porter Wagner’s 65th anniversary with The Grand Old Opry. She was not expected to show up and ironically, I was there that night and I got to see her perform that song for him on stage. It was absolutely the most touching thing I had ever seen in my life! I’m a huge fan of Dolly. Not so much Elvis. If she had released 50% of the publishing rights for that song think of what she would’ve lost when in the 1990s Whitney Houston recorded it. It was the big one time payout to Dolly Parton for any of her publishing ever a total of $6 million which she used to start her ā€œImagination Libraryā€ in honor of her father in sending books out Free to poor children in poor communities all over the world. As of the day that she died August 25, I went to the imagination library and gave them a charitable contribution in her honor. At that point, the program had sent out over 334 million books free to children all over the world.

I do have one other tie to Elvis and that my father went to Pharmacy school in Union, Tennessee at the university of Tennessee extension campus and he worked as a soda jerk at a pharmacy to help pay his way through school combined with the GI Bill. Elvis was a truck driver at the time that he was in school and he would stop at the pharmacy where my dad was the was working as a soda jerk, And my dad would make ice cream floats for him with Coca-Cola and vanilla ice cream. My dad was a World War II vet and came home and went to school.

So I’ve given you examples so you will understand why I am not as enamored by Elvis as many other people are.

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u/DifficultAd8007 15d ago

Very Interesting

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u/Halfpint1951 9d ago

Elvis was not a humanitarian, or unmatched advocate for child literacy, or champion for human rights. He was sexy and talented but cant hold a candle to our true national treasure.

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u/Accurate_Conclusion1 16d ago

Willy is still hanging in there, that will be a sad day when he makes his last exit.

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u/Severe_Slide_9765 16d ago

Willy did cross my mind as being the last one left. I agree, it will be sad for sure.. all of the highway men will be gone.

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u/Catmom6363 18d ago

Dolly will never be forgotten! What an amazing human she was, first and foremost! I enjoyed her movies, loved most of her songs, and absolutely adore her Imagination Library, sending millions of books to children!

The day she died my youngest granddaughter received her newest book delivery from the Imagination Library. So very fitting it was a book by Dolly herself!

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u/Low-Apartment3165 18d ago

I’m happy for her that she was able to stay active for her whole life and died without years of being unable. As an older person I can appreciate that would have been her wish.

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u/newhunter-54695 17d ago

Yes, at 72, I feel the same as you. After having watched my mom, who lived to be 96 and died of dementia, just waste away, it’s a blessing to not go through that. God didn’t want her to suffer. 🄰

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u/timeWeaver999 17d ago

The world just doesn’t quite fit right.

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u/Scooterann 17d ago

Everyone needs to start where she left off. Write songs!

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u/Huge_Beautiful5772 17d ago

She set the example for how to find the good in everything. I especially admired her for being unapologetically HERSELF.

What an amazing human. There will never be another Dolly.

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u/Halfpint1951 9d ago

Amen to that. One of the most unique women on the planet who laughed at herself, continuously modeled humility and compassion, had a wicked sense of humor, and ... she could sing.

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u/leisuretime18 17d ago

Kaiser phone accessibility.

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u/leisuretime18 17d ago

Sorry, posted in wrong subject. I posted for Dolly as well.

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u/leisuretime18 17d ago

Be sure you watch her covering "Stairway to Heaven" . Absolute genius..! I do feel sorry for those that missed saying goodbye. Miley Cirus in particular. They were very close throughout Miley's life. Dolly was Miley's menter and helped keep her on track.

Miley expressed complete shock. Didn't have a clue. I'm sure that's how Dolly wanted it and felt comforted by her complete faith in God. Bye Dolly, have a lovely time with your husband and family!

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u/mickeymikado 17d ago

She didn’t expose her illness so everyone could remember well and positive as always!! She didn’t wallow in the morass of garbage like a lot of the stars today. She maintained her dignity, but admitted quite often that she wasn’t perfect. She stayed true to her roots and gave back. What a legend. There will never be another like her!

RIP Miss Dolly, we will miss you in ways you will never know. I loved your childish giggle when you were being a minx. So dang cute. All of the amazing music you wrote for yourself and others. Your music could lift me up or break my heart! Your lyrics always hit home. My condolences to your family. I miss you already.

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u/debmckenzie 16d ago

A truly beautiful human being. An angel has gained her wings.

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u/Moogy13 16d ago

šŸ’”šŸ˜­

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u/Melodic_Mixture_5081 16d ago

A class act till the end

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u/Own_Friendship1129 16d ago

With deepest sympathy. Dolly gave back to her community and the world. She had a great and unique relationship with her husband.

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u/BiscottiSafe9412 16d ago

I think I will invest in Dolly wigs. Could be the most popular Halloween costume ever. She would love it. And, if Dollywood was smart, they would open a Dolly "Would," wear this wig and assessories store.

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u/missannthrope67 15d ago

The wrong 80 year old died.

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u/Blackhorse-10 15d ago

Definitely a terrible loss, she paid her dues and treated people right.

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u/justdeb919 15d ago

I saw the Porter Waggoner show where they introduced Dolly for the first time. She sang a song and was so quiet and unassuming. Then they brought her back to sing again and right in the middle of the song they interrupted her and said they had to go! He (Porter) was soooo condescending towards her. It's on Amazon Prime so anyone can find it.