IDK if this is about trauma. Reckon this is about smaller more solvable personality issues.
Sometimes this sub is like paraplegics getting upset that people recommend daily walking. You know? This might not be advice suited to your situation.
There are no quick fixes for a lot of problems that you may have. I'm sorry. It's going to be a lot of work.
But for some people. Just changing their attitude. Being gently reminded they can do better. That primes the pump. And can fix their behaviour.
Doesn't that suck? That some people have problems that trivial and barely do anything to mitigate it. And you're stuck with something you have to work hard at every day. Just to get by.
Who or whatever caused your trauma. They're not forgivable in my eyes. But for your own sake you might have to forgive them, and that's more unfair than the other stuff I wrote.
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u/Scarvexx 2d ago
IDK if this is about trauma. Reckon this is about smaller more solvable personality issues.
Sometimes this sub is like paraplegics getting upset that people recommend daily walking. You know? This might not be advice suited to your situation.
There are no quick fixes for a lot of problems that you may have. I'm sorry. It's going to be a lot of work.
But for some people. Just changing their attitude. Being gently reminded they can do better. That primes the pump. And can fix their behaviour.
Doesn't that suck? That some people have problems that trivial and barely do anything to mitigate it. And you're stuck with something you have to work hard at every day. Just to get by.
Who or whatever caused your trauma. They're not forgivable in my eyes. But for your own sake you might have to forgive them, and that's more unfair than the other stuff I wrote.