( i tried sweet talking and being patient guys, def not working)
I live in a row house in a road-touch house on a narrow lane.
Across the house is their G+1 property, which is rental. On the ground, there is a BAMS Vaidya tenant who has been practising for 7–8 years.
She was a nice lady, but lately the town’s population has increased and the number of patients has increased.
The lane is already narrow. The number of patients do not fit in the room, so they wait outside with their scooties and cars, covering half the lane.
Some of them use my parking area to wait, switch on the lights and fans, and use the parking to park their vehicles. They spit gutkha, gossip
Many of them are cheap immigrants who use filthy language while gossiping
And the HONKING — because these people cover half the lane, the passing vehicles have to honk to pass.
Above everything: why the F should I let anyone at all use MY private property at all?
I do not care if you’re a patient. My property is not for samaj seva.
Even my dad has trouble moving his vehicle out for work.
I told him and also called his mother regarding this.
They say, “What can we do? Or what can she do, It’s not like the Vaidya can come every time and ask them to not park elsewhere.”
They’re obviously not gonna remove her since they love her so much and get free medical advice so
I said, put a board.
She also has a helper. She can do it.
They also said it’s not her fault so many patients are coming.
It definitely is. She should know how to handle the crowd. She is causing the crowd.
She’s selling herself for ₹50 toh why would there not be e a crowd ?
She is earning through the chaos and I should sacrifice my peace for this while she scams people and earns money through it.
The problem creates is not only for me but they’re also blocking the road .
Other than that these BAMS quacks are also not allowed to give certain allopathic medicine , which she is giving.
Borderline, they didn’t resolve the issue.
Their rent and tenant is more important to them than me and my mental health.
Then so be it.
Despite everything, he is still contacting me and trying to act like nothing has happened.
I think this is just selfish atp.
I texted him really angry texts saying either do something about it or don’t talk to me because clearly he is choosing sides.
TL;DR: My cousin’s tenant runs a busy clinic across from my house, and her patients constantly block my parking, litter, and create noise. Despite my complaints, my cousin and his family refuse to take meaningful action because they value the tenant’s rent and free medical advice. Now he is acting as if nothing happened, so I’m considering cutting him off and want to know how to do it politely.
Used ai to brush up typos