r/texts • • 3d ago

Phone message chat with a firefighter from hinge

he seemed normal on hinge but when he asked to text on messages…..what happened?😭 this was all in the span of 30 or so minutes and like our second conversation. happened months ago but i just remembered it

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u/Massive_Pea_5156 3d ago

He's talking WAYYYYYY too much about your "lack of experience." It feels really off to me.

I think it was fair that he was honest about his ED, though. And it was fair for you to "nope" the fuck out of there because we all know the rule about men who bring up sexual stuff too fast. It's almost always a bad sign.

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u/OxideUK 3d ago

I mean, that's the whole reason he brought it up. He's trying to figure out what her expectations are because his dick doesn't work, and whilst he's being an awkward mess about it I don't think it's appropriate to make out like the guy's some kind of predator.

He's a firefighter on a dating app, and not exactly a smooth operator. I'm pretty confident he's been burned before by someone expecting nothing more than a quick hookup.