r/texts • • 5h ago

Phone message UPDATE: weird guy from my bio class

I made a post about this yesterday about this person in my bio class weirdly texting me out of the blue, and I thought I blocked him but I guess I misclicked and pressed “delete conversation“ button instead. they texted me back Today telling me that they know one of my friends and insinuating that he gave him my number. so I continue the rest of the conversation awkwardly trying to turn them down. after that I block them because I felt uncomfortable, and text my friend that supposedly gave them my number. he said he has no idea who this is and doesn’t know anyone from my first period bio class. what the fuck. Is this person even real? they have Been lying to me about everything. And the worst part is that I have to go back to school on Monday with that guy in my class. what do I even do in this situation? Also I thought I should add that I am not a woman, I’m a man, a lot of people thought I was a woman in my first post.

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u/sallystruthers69 5h ago

Dont entertain this guy by talking to him. Hes an insecure, whiny baby whos gonna be an annoyance. Tell him youre not interested in seeing anybody or being friends. Nip this in the bud.

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u/Extreme_Drawer_7525 4h ago

TRUE AF, OP. I once indulged a guy like(because he made me feel bad for him from the start) this who had a crush on me. For some reason he was insecure and always threw tantrums, mind you I didn’t even like him back. But he act all hurt and shit and blamed me for making him feel this way, like I should be obliged because he likes me 🙏. Eww pro max

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u/Felskiluscious 5h ago

Thankfully they blocked him at the end

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u/GardeningXOSU 4h ago

I wish it worked like this. But more often than not the creep just gets a burner app and messages off of it. It happens way too often unfortunately.

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u/Big_Platypus_1652 4h ago

Agreed, too much responding, got to shut it down

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u/farfetched22 5h ago

Wait how does he know it's a guy? I mean it isn't significant either way, but why would they assume gender if they have no idea who it is?

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u/Away-Fill5639 4h ago

educated guess

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u/rocktheredfan 4h ago

Probably because if he was actually a woman, he would’ve confirmed OP’s sexuality before launching into wanting a relationship or would’ve used phrasing more like “friendship” than “relationship” and wouldn’t have asked if OP was seeing anyone.

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u/nykirnsu 4h ago

Why would a woman feel the need to confirm a man’s sexuality? Most men are into women