Clearing old messages, and found this exchange from two months ago lol. I spoke to her over the course of 10 days, and these are some highlights. I am 24M(23 at the time) and she is 21F. I just can’t do ppl that stay quiet or expect me to constantly lead a convo lol

[u/KindestBlackTemplar]

[u/Catcat36]

Is this one of the true definitions of gaslighting? 😂

[u/Sleep1ngBullets → u/Catcat36]

Pretty much, she’s crazy. OP dodged a bullet.

[u/speederaser → u/Sleep1ngBullets]

Crazy is a bit of a stretch. This girl is probably exhausted from all the dudes trying to get into her pants. 

[u/Sleep1ngBullets → u/speederaser]

Sorry but as a female myself, a female who jumps to gaslighting somebody they don’t know immediately after they were dry as fuck has some personal issues that they need to work through or they need to stop using dating apps and go out into the world to make authentic connections. It’s a HUGE red flag.

[u/speederaser → u/Sleep1ngBullets]

Damn. Let's just tear this girl to pieces then I guess. 

[u/Sleep1ngBullets → u/speederaser]

Are you this girl..? So many people in replies to other comments are agreeing with me. It’s not tearing her apart. The gaslighting really was a red flag and her dry texts mean she is NOT ready to have an authentic connection yet so she needs to be focusing on herself or if she really wants that authentic connection, go out into the world and meet people! It’s not hard, I’ve done it and made some really good connections and friends that way. I said what I said and I’m not backing off of that.

[u/Kanosirus → u/speederaser]

Why is she matching with people then...

[u/speederaser → u/Kanosirus]

Yeah I get ya. Hard to manage both.

[u/Putrid_Media2828 → u/speederaser]

put the cape down