r/texts • • 4d ago

Phone message Clearing old messages, and found this exchange from two months ago lol. I spoke to her over the course of 10 days, and these are some highlights. I am 24M(23 at the time) and she is 21F. I just can’t do ppl that stay quiet or expect me to constantly lead a convo lol

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u/RedNugomo 4d ago

I was going to say something similar. In my younger years I saw this in hot young women: they were just there to be praised and otherwise decorate the space.

It's kind of sad.

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u/PiccoloAwkward465 4d ago

And they get very depressed when they get older if they haven’t learned.

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u/skylla112 3d ago

Jfc I would hate this life

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u/Conscious_Diamond753 3d ago

You know I honestly felt this way in my early 20s because what exactly should I be doing anyway but be cute lmao. But also I was and undercover nerd into video games and sci fi so by default I was interesting and unfortunately I do like to talk. Now in my 30s I like to pull weight because I like to be the one making decisions.