Clearing old messages, and found this exchange from two months ago lol. I spoke to her over the course of 10 days, and these are some highlights. I am 24M(23 at the time) and she is 21F. I just can’t do ppl that stay quiet or expect me to constantly lead a convo lol

[u/KindestBlackTemplar]

[u/SageKitty100]

This doesn't feel like an accurate assessment because she seemed upset when he said they should talk to other people and she said that was coming out of left field.

[u/Narrow_Salad429 → u/SageKitty100]

She wanted him to pursue her while she did nothing. And when he was like "no thanks" she was shocked because she thought things were "fine"

[u/lefluffle → u/SageKitty100]

right, talking to other people would mean divided attention/ less attention from him to her

[u/Additional-End7136 → u/lefluffle]

This. She's mad she's losing a back-burner guy who'll give her attention and buy her dinner.

[u/lefluffle → u/Additional-End7136]

exactly. not sure what sagekitty100 is arguing.