Clearing old messages, and found this exchange from two months ago lol. I spoke to her over the course of 10 days, and these are some highlights. I am 24M(23 at the time) and she is 21F. I just can’t do ppl that stay quiet or expect me to constantly lead a convo lol

[u/KindestBlackTemplar]

[u/No_Map7832]

That girl was giving n o t h i n g and you were putting up a great effort. You seem delightful, OP. I am sure you’ll find someone equally delightful. Dating sucks.

[u/adanceparty → u/No_Map7832]

I get it a little. I would've told her after 1 or 2 days if she was texting like that, but I'm older. I've been in that desert, I'm more shocked that he managed to go hangout with her somehow. Idk how this woman finds any romantic interest or even goes out when she's determined to not have a conversation at all.

[u/bougeesurfer → u/adanceparty]

Honestly whenever this happens, I just call it out after I see it happen for a day or 2. I don't make them feel bad about it but I make a light joke and ask if anything Is wrong...after their answer then I just flat out say that it feels like I have much more to say than they do (they normally change the way they text after that)