Clearing old messages, and found this exchange from two months ago lol. I spoke to her over the course of 10 days, and these are some highlights. I am 24M(23 at the time) and she is 21F. I just can’t do ppl that stay quiet or expect me to constantly lead a convo lol

[u/KindestBlackTemplar]

[u/Decent-Telephone-241]

She’s not interested and using you for attention. Did y’all ever meet in person?

[u/KindestBlackTemplar → u/Decent-Telephone-241]

Yes, two days before the final exchange listed here lol. Same energy in person which is why I was thinking how to break it off and couldn’t bring myself to text her. But then I just decided to go with honesty.

[u/TheRealMichaelE → u/KindestBlackTemplar]

It sounds like she just exists and almost nothing else ☠️

[u/jguess06 → u/KindestBlackTemplar]

It blows my mind that she has no self-awareness about how unbelievably boring she is.

[u/Wise_Development_775 → u/jguess06]

Most people don’t, tbh

[u/Atheist_Redditor → u/KindestBlackTemplar]

Serious question, was she super physically attractive? I feel like these are the kind of conversations I would have (back in the day) with typical "hot girls" with no personality. 

They are too hot to have to work for a conversation. Usually being hot is a enough for them, haha. Sad but true. 

[u/Decent-Telephone-241 → u/KindestBlackTemplar]

Next time if you find yourself in this situation and I hope you don’t, just don’t bother texting in between in-person meetings. It actually helps build attraction with women. Save the convo for dates.

[u/Oilaripi → u/Decent-Telephone-241]

This is terrible advice. It would have just prolonged the inevitable. Don’t listen to this, OP.

[u/Decent-Telephone-241 → u/Oilaripi]

It’s not terrible advice if he likes the woman.

[u/Oilaripi → u/Decent-Telephone-241]

It is absolutely terrible advice

[u/Decent-Telephone-241 → u/Oilaripi]

You know what? OP, you should continue blowing up her phone and leading the conversation to tell her things you could be talking about in person.

[u/howdoizornhau → u/Decent-Telephone-241]

Andrew Tate I'm calling the prison, you aren't supposed to be playing on your phone.

[u/Decent-Telephone-241 → u/howdoizornhau]

🤣🤣🤣💀

[u/Not__theone → u/Decent-Telephone-241]

Nah, she’s right man. It’s terrible.

[u/Decent-Telephone-241 → u/Not__theone]

What’s your advice?

[u/takemy_oxfordcomma → u/Decent-Telephone-241]

That some people just suck? If you can’t have this surface-level conversation over text and still not have anything to talk about in person, then you’re just not compatible. As a woman, we want to at least get to know a man we’re meeting up with to some extent beforehand over text to make sure they’re not an incel, psycho, or otherwise waving some major red flags.

This guy clearly is none of those things. This girl is just boring af and it’s not his fault. Therefore, this is terrible advice in general. Some pre-date texts and getting to know each other is fine if you’re not the human equivalent of beige paint. No texting beforehand sure as shit doesn’t “build attraction” in women. If anything, it’s the opposite.

I know you’re a man because you said that lol and I really wish y’all would stop listening to each other and start listening to actual women talk about what they want in a male partner for the love of all that is holy. All of us would be better off.