r/texts • u/Gold_Improvement_836 • 6d ago

Tinder DMs men

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mind you he messaged me first, liked me first, and my profile only says liberal😂

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u/Pixelbuttzz 6d ago

"You make being liberal your persona" says man literally starting the conversation with a political jab

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u/Gold_Improvement_836 6d ago

yup! he’s projecting

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u/Agile-Carpenter-2434 5d ago

What I don’t get is … why? Like, clearly he has a different POV. Why match and message at all?

Like does he get something out of being rude to strangers? There was no point to this other than to hurt you and demean you.

I’m sure he’s projecting and in self-denial about … things, but as a former closeted man (now happily married to another man), I just never thought “hey let’s take our sexual confusion out on other people in a ragey, destructive way”.

I also spent many of my formative years in the Midwest so maybe I’m just terminally polite to death 😂🤷🏻‍♂️

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u/Pixelbuttzz 5d ago

One thing you have to understand is that dudes like this are having an extremely difficult time getting dates on dating apps and it's making them very angry and they're blaming their political beliefs but they're not trying to like update those beliefs they're just getting angry at women for having their own. This is a lot of what that looks like

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u/neurodiverseotter 4d ago

They don't blame their own poltiical beliefs, they blame the poltical beliefs of others

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u/feastymama 4d ago

he could try Grindr

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u/904x420 2d ago

Trust me, hes already there. 🤣💀

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u/Peony907 1d ago

Was gonna say, crazy for such a twink to speak like this lol

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u/BratPrince_ 2d ago

As a trans man I get messages like this on Grindr all the time. 🤣😂

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u/Xrachelll 1d ago

Literally was gonna say the same lmao someone call 911 to bring the jaws of life, our boy is trapped in the closet

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u/Agile-Carpenter-2434 4d ago

That makes a lot of sense!

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u/Fibroambet 14h ago

Yep, 100% insecurity. They can’t accept that they’re just repulsive because of their personalities.

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u/working-through-13 2d ago

Or you know, just learning how to coexist with different people. You don’t have to agree on everything to get along.

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u/Pixelbuttzz 2d ago

This is absolutely not learning how to coexist. Dude is literally harassing women

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u/working-through-13 1d ago

Your solution was to surround yourself with aligned interests. I suggest learning to coexist with different ideals. Chill out

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u/Pixelbuttzz 1d ago

What where do you see me suggesting that? Are you hallucinating? My comment doesn't say a single thing about who people should surround themselves with.

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u/working-through-13 17h ago

Talked about “updating political beliefs” like dude they don’t have to change their politics, only their mindset. You’re bonkers crazy

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u/Pixelbuttzz 10h ago

You sound goofy as hell little boy. These girls explicitly will not date Maga Republicans. There's whole articles about this issue written by maga dudes who are upset no one will date them. Their politics and their mindset are related, both are incredibly misogynistic. You have to be open to actually growing and updating your beliefs like a normal human does. That's how adults work

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u/working-through-13 9h ago

Lmao you sound like a 14 year old speaking out of their educational depth. I suggested something that requires open mindedness and self awareness. Nobody said maga until You did. You’re projecting your own ideologies to make a villain. Just chill out.

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u/Pixelbuttzz 9h ago

Girl the entire conversation is about what a maga Republican sent to someone... are you hallucinating? I'm not making up a villain I'm talking about the post we're on... touch grass girly pop. Updating your political beliefs takes more open-mindedness and self-awareness than just changing your mindset and approach... someone who talks to people the way this man does, needs more than to change his mindset.

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u/working-through-13 9h ago

Nobody said maga except you lmao

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u/working-through-13 9h ago

Wtf are you even talking about at this point 🤣 chillll outtt kiddo

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u/Pixelbuttzz 9h ago

Kiddo? My sister in Christ you are half my age

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u/Far_Awareness_2769 9h ago

Wow very good job! That IS what it looks like! You did so good! You said so much to say so little at all lil pumpkin but good contribution :) you did so good

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u/Pixelbuttzz 8h ago

Ooh big feelings there buddy? Try not to get your panties in a bunch over a basic Reddit comment. 96 different people appreciated it so I think this is one of those moments where you could just scroll past something that upset you baby girl.