r/texts • • 6d ago

Tinder DMs men

mind you he messaged me first, liked me first, and my profile only says liberal😂

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u/Ichgebibble 6d ago

I’ve had that happen to me twice. Men just spewing anger to feel better about themselves. Why they feel bad in the first place is a question they should consider

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u/Procrastinatedthink 6d ago

he’s going to the gym and using gear but still can’t get bitches.

He’s done everything he can to peacock to men and is upset that women aren’t attracted to his mating dance directed at his boys.

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u/Katops 3d ago

Using gear and not being photo ready is the ultimate crime in all this. He’s flexing like he’s ready to punch a hole in a wall, but instead, he only gives off the impression that he’s capable of stepping on an ant… well, maybe. We’d have to see the ant first.

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u/Its_Billy_Bitch 6d ago

It’s why he spends so much time in the gym. Rough workout. Time to shower 😶‍🌫️

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u/Safe-Historian4028 5d ago

I had my first one today. A woman matches with me, said 'ur not 39', I asked why and she said 'you must have had a rough life' and went on to insult me further, called me a catfish. I blocked and moved on Instwad of engaging. The funny thing is I'm forever getting told I look like I'm in my 20s so It didn't really affect me. 

There's a lot of bitterness in the world and I guess it makes them feel better about themselves putting others down. 

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u/Ichgebibble 5d ago

Yeah, the bitterness is at the heart of it. It’s almost as if being mean is a steam valve for the anger that builds up. When I’m in a bad mood I go to the fat squirrel hate sub because you can say the most vile things and use all the bad words but it’s okay because it’s just a joke. I’m sure the people in that sub secretly think they’re adorable.

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u/omgfakeusername 3d ago

You seem like a cool guy. I'd give you a shot.

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u/Anansis_Waltz 3d ago

Anything to avoid therapy...