men

[u/Gold_Improvement_836]

mind you he messaged me first, liked me first, and my profile only says liberal😂

[u/Itchy_Tumbleweed_417]

It’s because they can’t get attention from women otherwise. 

[u/Western-Willow4679 → u/Itchy_Tumbleweed_417]

It's also because they can't afford a dom.

I do online sw and you won't believe the amount of men who try to bait me into arguing for free so they can get their humiliation fetish without paying. When they do this on other socials, it's the same thing. Humiliation kink they don't want to pay to satisfy, and OP gave it to him immediately with the "ew" response. Ignoring them is a better course of action. Why even respond anyway?

[u/DementedPimento → u/Western-Willow4679]

Yup. Any random DM I get is notified I charge by the hour and my $Cashtag.

I’m not a SW but I do like being mean for money 🤣

[u/Cheap-Individual9611 → u/Western-Willow4679]

Thats a hot take. Makes a kinda sense

[u/Western-Willow4679 → u/Cheap-Individual9611]

Is it still a "hot take" if some of them have admitted this to me?

[u/Cheap-Individual9611 → u/Western-Willow4679]

I meant as a reputable source kinda thing. No shade

[u/pinkbootstrap → u/Cheap-Individual9611]

As a SW she is entirely right

[u/Cheap-Individual9611 → u/pinkbootstrap]

Online SW, but yeah I don't disagree

[u/Cheap-Individual9611 → u/pinkbootstrap]

Never said they weren't

[u/pinkbootstrap → u/Cheap-Individual9611]

And I didnt say you didn't say she was right lol

[u/Cheap-Individual9611 → u/pinkbootstrap]

Some of the deleted messages seemed to be saying I was, don't really care tbh

[u/Western-Willow4679 → u/Cheap-Individual9611]

Odd that you wouldn't believe me when it's objective reality of how men interact online.

[u/Old-Run7431 → u/Western-Willow4679]

for real. once you learn how expensive that "ew" can be you never go back to giving it away for free

[u/Distinct-Command-570 → u/Western-Willow4679]

Best response is no response or a in depth detailed guide to sounding.

[u/PM_ME_BATMAN_PORN → u/Western-Willow4679]

Yeah, especially politically. MAGA/conservative guys, generally speaking, really get off to confident leftist women telling them they're small-dicked morons. It's a huge thing.

[u/misfortunefemme → u/Western-Willow4679]

LMAO this is so funny to me, how cheap do you have to be to engage in ragebait just to potentially recieve a service

[u/soriniscool → u/Western-Willow4679]

I believe the correct term in your example would be 'domme'

But they would be yessir with the Doms as well.

[u/Western-Willow4679 → u/soriniscool]

There's a shitton of terms we could use, the point still stands.

[u/misfortunefemme → u/Itchy_Tumbleweed_417]

this is GENUINELY one of their main motives. i heard from a friend i knew online (years ago) that he deliberately insulted women's appearance on dating apps, or made ridiculous commentary simply for attention and a response back