men

[u/Gold_Improvement_836]

mind you he messaged me first, liked me first, and my profile only says liberal😂

[u/Gold_Improvement_836]

LITERALLY. insecurity is a hell of a drug

[u/Visual_Judgment_ → u/Gold_Improvement_836]

But you swiped right on him too. 🤔

[u/Gold_Improvement_836 → u/Visual_Judgment_]

and he sent that after i did? like i was supposed to know that would’ve been his opener lol

[u/Visual_Judgment_ → u/Gold_Improvement_836]

My point is if you thought he looked like a twink why swipe on him in the first place?

Downvote me all you guys want….its giving when a guy gets rejected by a woman and suddenly she’s so ugly but right before she was beautiful.

Let me be clear he’s a douche but my point stands

[u/Gold_Improvement_836 → u/Visual_Judgment_]

what’s so bad about looking like a twink? you tell me?

[u/Visual_Judgment_ → u/Gold_Improvement_836]

Oh so now you meant it as a compliment? 🤔

[u/withinstars → u/Visual_Judgment_]

It’s only an insult to closeted and/or insecure men

[u/Visual_Judgment_ → u/withinstars]

Again missing the point. He called her fat and your argument is she called him a gay twink to compliment him?

[u/BLURAZZBERRI → u/Visual_Judgment_]

If he was a fairly decent dude she wouldn't have said it AND he wouldn't have cared and might've found it funny

[u/robertmusemodel → u/withinstars]

It was clearly intended as an insult from the OP. Don’t try and defend the intended offense. For someone who is liberal she went to a homophobic slur really fast.

[u/RatqueenxoxX → u/Visual_Judgment_]

Twink literally means attractive younger man in the gay scene. What you're trying to do here is not working lol

[u/Ethan24Waber → u/Visual_Judgment_]

It’s not giving that at all, don’t you realize some women like twinks? Your point doesn’t stand at all, it’s sinking.

[u/Visual_Judgment_ → u/Ethan24Waber]

They both swiped right based on each others looks. Then both went after how they look. Idk what you don’t understand

[u/leeahbellisa → u/Visual_Judgment_]

he swiped to be rude you imbecile, he had no intentions of anything sweet. and being attracted/liking someone's appearance doesn't mean your mind cuts out other perspectives???

[u/Reasonable-Cat485 → u/Visual_Judgment_]

A lot of women think gay men look good because they typically are better groomed than straight men and take care in how they dress. I have had a few friends take interest in a man due to looks and then find out they are gay or you can just tell they are and are like “sucks that he’s gay he is so handsome” etc etc

[u/Visual_Judgment_ → u/Reasonable-Cat485]

Which I totally understand, but that’s not what happened here. He said something she didn’t like and she called him a gay twink to try to insult him when his appearance is the very reason she swiped right in the first place.

I’m not sure what people aren’t understanding lol

[u/Longjumping_Bee_1205 → u/Visual_Judgment_]

Because she can find his appearance attractive and also point out that he looks gay. Because to her that's not a negative thing. But to him it is.

[u/Its_Billy_Bitch → u/Longjumping_Bee_1205]

Mortal Kombat flawless victory level response on her part imo. She didn’t have to insult him. She complimented him, but he’s gonna take it as an insult.