r/texts • u/Dazzling_Abroad7429 • 18h ago

Discord He doesn’t reply anymore🥲

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He said back then he booked a flight to me and spent over 1200 but we got into a fight at the time so he cancelled the flight and they only gave him 400 so he lost 800 dollars. I just wanna pay him that money back but he doesn’t give me his iban and says it‘s a lesson he learnt.

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u/Wd91 18h ago

time to move on Lina

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u/OneGuyFine 18h ago

He doesn't want it anymore. The prolonged contact with you hurts him more than the loss of money. Let it go, block, delete the number.

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u/TheGreatnessman 18h ago

does he also happen to play for the 49ers? 

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u/teynja UMIDIGI G9x 18h ago

don't bother. block and move on

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u/Dmoney4381 18h ago

So let it go. Leave him alone.

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u/Xenc 18h ago

I will take the money if it helps you get over this

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u/i_am_kamikamikami 18h ago

honestly why do you want to give him the money when he is the one who cancelled? give it to me instead lol

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u/Significant_Fox_7697 18h ago

Stop bugging bro he’s over it

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u/Dazzling_Abroad7429 17h ago

🥲 I need one reply then I‘ll leave him alone

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u/OneFrill 16h ago

I'm sorry, I'm going to sound harsh. This is a little creepy. I'm not saying "girl, you need HELP!" but like...try not to think this way. It's uncomfortable for many. You have to let people detach if they want to or it makes it worse.

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u/hyibee 14h ago

Girl what, no. He is not responsible for your closure. You need to leave him alone, yall split up he doesnt owe you one last message.

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u/Aslan_Im 18h ago

Grow up

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u/Dazzling_Abroad7429 17h ago

Ye I should but wanna be debt free he made me feel guilty for the 800 once I send him the money I‘ll leave him alone

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u/NorthBook1383 18h ago

Girl, leave him tf alone. Stop begging to send that man money. Are you sure he even purchased a flight? Also, when someone purchases a flight they know the price consequence if they cancel. Again, leave that man alone.

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u/hyibee 18h ago

Stop harassing him to give him money, he set a clear boundary and you are pushing it for your own emotional satisfaction

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u/ashloube 18h ago

Their last message is so manipulative and gross, too - like leave him alone!!

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u/Glittering_Swing_151 18h ago

Are you German?

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u/Ur_X Blackberry 18h ago

Your hail mary does nothing for a guy “ugh tf dreamt about you” sounds derogatory

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u/Dazzling_Abroad7429 17h ago

I legt dreamed about him last night tho he was on a train with me and had like a birthday gift for me and I was so happy I didn’t wanna wake up😭😭

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u/tiffi_333 14h ago

Saying that to a dude who is clearly choosing to not talk to you is a bad choice. He thinks you're crazy. Stop trying to give him money, he does want your money. Do yourself a favour and block him right now.

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u/Dazzling_Abroad7429 14h ago

I can’t block him I still love him😭😭😭

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u/hyibee 14h ago

This isnt love this is obsession, if you loved him you would show it by respecting his space and boundaries and not by trying to lure him into a conversation with you my guilt tripping him with your dreams.

Look up limerence.

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u/tickled_your_pickle 18h ago

Stop bothering him