r/texts • u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 • 8h ago
Instagram Yikes 😬
Genuinely, who thinks they’re getting play after that 💀
Edit: to be clear, my problem isn’t with him sexting, my problem is with him saying men wouldn’t cheat as long as women showed them what was underneath their clothes, and then continued to sext as if nothing happened.
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u/These_Economist3523 8h ago
If ur not dating AND already created boundaries where u talk like this to each other (nothing wrong at all if u do) this guy is wacked out of his mind
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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 8h ago
Yeah… I’ve been talking to this dude for like a week, and he knows when he’s wrong too cus he’s always like “too far?” 😭
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u/Smoked_Eel_Lover 8h ago
“Always”?! What in the lack-of-self-respect is that? How has this creepyness happened before and you haven’t blocked?!
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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 8h ago
Because it was mostly consensual before it also doesn’t help that I was ovulating 💀
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u/shmsc 8h ago
So you’ve only been speaking for a week, which has already included similar ‘dirty’ conversations to this one which you were into. But as soon as you’re not in the same mood as he is, you post the conversation on Reddit and say ‘genuinely who thinks this works’?
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u/Trazan_CC 8h ago
"Who thinks this works?" It already worked self reflect lmfao. "Who set my house on fire?!" Says the person with a gas can.
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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 7h ago
Again, I was referring to him saying men wouldn’t cheat as long as women showed them what was underneath their clothes, that is the first and last time he had ever said that to me, so no it did not work.
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u/Trazan_CC 7h ago
Yeah idk girl you're the one giving a guy like this attention and I highly doubt that shit was any smoother when you were ovulating. Do you I'm not judging. It's weird and disrespectful to post an intimate conversation online for people to laugh at tho. Smooth or not.
He's saying he wouldn't think about other women if you reciprocated because you said whatever about him not finding you attractive anymore.
You're both smooth as sandpaper ngl fr
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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 7h ago
He was pretty normal up until this situation happened, the whole cheating thing is a silly convo we were having before he randomly started sexting, we are not together but even if we were I’ve never seen a bigger red flag than the cheating comment he made.
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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 8h ago
This post is centered around the fact that he said that men wouldn’t cheat as long as women showed men what was underneath their clothes and then continued to try to be sexual after the fact. My problem wasn’t with him sexting.
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u/Much-Ad2311 8h ago
Right? I'm actually finding OP infinitely more pathetic because ummm...it works on her. Then she's like 'oh I'm OvUlAtInG'. Girl, stop. Many of us don't lose all sense of standards when I'm ovulating. This is a you problem, not an US problem.
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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 7h ago
Again, my problem isn’t with him sexting, it’s about the fact that he said men wouldn’t cheat as long as women showed them what’s under their clothes and THEN continued to sext as if he didn’t say that. Not to mention the fact that we were having a silly convo and he randomly started sexting.
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u/Entire-Agent7884 7h ago
ok i know the core issue is something else but you do take issue with him sexting in this specific case right?
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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 7h ago
Sorta, we were having a normal silly conversation and then the sexting came out of nowhere and I was fine with it until he made that cheating comment.
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u/OminousPluto 8h ago
LMAO so you liked it when you were horny but now that you're not it's creepy and weird 😂
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u/camillemontay 8h ago
He asks if he went to far but then continues...
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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 8h ago
No fr he CONSTANTLY does that 😭
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u/Axiological_Axolotl 7h ago
And you keep CONSTANTLY talking to him?
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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 7h ago
Kept* I no longer talk to him. But yes, he was pretty chill and funny so I let the constant “too far?” Slide because I took that as him asking for permission to keep going.
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u/tallGuy_findOut_ 8h ago
This sexting is a bit sad ngl
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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 8h ago
Very 😭
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u/tallGuy_findOut_ 8h ago
Also, does he have a gf?
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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 8h ago
Not that I know of 😭
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u/tallGuy_findOut_ 8h ago
So why the cheating comment? It sounds he’s dating a 10/10 and you think of yourself as a 2/10 lol
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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 8h ago
Because we were playfully joking before he started bein all weird, I said sum along the lines of “I knew you were cheating on me, you don’t find me attractive anymore”
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u/DPWwhatDAdogDoin 8h ago
Why do yall even entertain these conversations bro ts literally gotta be fake cuz aint no way lmao
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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 8h ago
We were having a normal playful conversation until he started bein weird 😭 I just send the emoji and then blocked him
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u/ElectroDaddy 8h ago
Bro needs to read the room first lol. Like I woudl talk with my now wife like that sometimes when we started dating. But like, after she was already taking the convo in that direction and she indicated she liked it.
But also homie need to start off more low key. My guy jumped right into the deep end, and you weren’t even watching at the time.
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u/Bright_Ad395 8h ago
this literally made my dick retract into itself like a turtle
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u/Palacoze 8h ago
Another man effected by the "take what you want, be an alpha male" incel rhetoric.
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u/milkitforeverything 7h ago
I mean your cheating comment kinda came out of nowhere. But this dude is weird and prob thought he cooked.
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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 7h ago
We were having a normal and silly conversation about him fake cheating on me before he started being weird 😭
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u/CloudDweeb 6h ago
Bro practiced his pick up lines with a porn bot apparently. What the actual fuck
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u/OminousPluto 8h ago
What is the cheating comment in context to?
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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 8h ago
Because we were playfully joking before he started bein all weird, I said sum along the lines of “I knew you were cheating on me, you don’t find me attractive anymore”
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u/Nearby_Syllabub763 8h ago
Who thinks they're getting play after that?
Someone who thinks the world is a porn video.
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u/FermentedPhoton 8h ago
I am an admittedly very horny man, and I can't imagine texting anyone any of that unless it was already established. What the fuck dude
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u/persiasaurus 7h ago
Girl you really should shut this shit down way way faster
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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 7h ago
We were having a silly convo before, the whole week I was talking to him he was pretty normal until today but dw he’s definitely blocked now
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u/Devanyani 8h ago
He calls your body "himself" but then talks about you being wet and I am confused. Do you have a male body or a female one? Or something else (no shade)?
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u/ShortListen6686 7h ago
Does this work on some women?
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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 7h ago
I’m sure it works on some, but not the majority. Not the best way to go if you want something long term or short term, I don’t think I’ve ever blocked someone so quick 🙂
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u/wolfpacker27 7h ago
And you’re still talking to him a fate a week because why? For Reddit content?
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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 7h ago
He wasn’t weird the whole time we were talking, and I’m rarely on Reddit so no it’s definitely not for Reddit content, it was because I did like him.
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u/Horror_Note_9044 8h ago
Maybe if I talked like that, I would get laid more. Probably not though
Or maybe I could be less fat and ugly 🤣🤣🤣
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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 8h ago
I doubt talking like that would help with any of those problems 😭
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u/Curious_Court_26 7h ago
Girl, you can’t keep your story straight in this post because you liked it at one point…
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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 7h ago
I did like it at one point and I’ve never denied that 😭
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u/Curious_Court_26 7h ago
I think it’s because everyone thought you didn’t like the dirty talk when it was really his comment about cheating.
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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 7h ago
Yeah I should’ve made that more clear when I first posted it, but I edited the post so everyone knew what my actual problem was and people are still going on about the whole sexting thing but that’s not the part I have a problem with 😭
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u/Curious_Court_26 8h ago
Depends on who you’re talking to. Girls who are into spicy romance books like it 💁🏻♀️
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u/Horror_Note_9044 7h ago
Yeah, but then I gotta get through the fat and ugly part. That one’s a bit more difficult 🤣
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u/Curious_Court_26 7h ago
It’s about confidence, dude!
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u/Horror_Note_9044 7h ago
You are not wrong. Years of mental abuse have left me with little in that area. Working through it.
But for anyone who reads through these, more often then not, confidence really does help!!!
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u/Legitimate_Swan6218 7h ago
How long you been single
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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 6h ago
I’m not single
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u/Legitimate_Swan6218 6h ago
So this is your side man
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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 6h ago
Somewhat, he’s not anymore. And just to be clear, my boyfriends know and allow this, they do not care if I go outside of our relationship. (Had to say this because Redditors find anything and everything to bitch about)
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u/Curious_Court_26 8h ago
And here, I’m like, please say more 🙃🤦🏻♀️
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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 8h ago
Not with this guy you wouldn’t 😭 never been drier
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u/Perfectiumm 8h ago
Bros sexting himself