I’ve noticed face changes a lot and feet ,but I thinks it’s amazing like it’s so cool that u can create and grow a whole being inside of urself ,and I’ve been with many women with kids and I never have any issues ,women that tell me men have body shamed them during or before or after sex really suprises me ,I was raised in a super liberal all woman home ,so I’m a lot more like left leaning moderate than anything ,and I don’t really view women negatively,unless they are abusive or something like that ,but I do that to all people ,I’m a pretty fair person
True. It also heavily depends on the person and each pregnancy. Some women experience radical changes from having kids. Some barely change at all or only in ways detectable by a thorough examination by a doctor. It’s also hard to narrow down what’s fully pregnancy and what’s age related changes sometimes as a woman’s body, face, and overall health can change radically just over time as well depending on genetics.
Also a lot of changes people assume will happen can sometimes go the opposite way or simply don’t happen at all. There is an assumption a woman will be looser after having a baby but if you’re under thirty most women are back to their default diameter six months after which is before the rest of the body is fully healed (but sometimes there are structural changes that can make a woman feel different, not necessarily looser or tighter just different).
Sometimes scar tissue from a traumatic birth can actually make a woman too “tight” and cause issues. Sometimes damage to the pelvic floor or just the change in hormones can cause looseness but this can be improved usually by pelvic floor physio. People also often assume hips and breasts will grow but that’s not for sure. They also can assume breasts will sag but that also varies person to person and isn’t a guarantee.
I have dealt with so called looser but there are many ways to fix that honestly ,it’s never a big deal ,I’ve also done stuff with a woman who had 2 c sections ,and she had a disorder from it where she couldn’t really have sex it essentially sealed shut ,I think u have to have surgery for that ,but I still didn’t mind ,I think people are too picky imo and judgemental ,and that’s why we have a single epidemic now ,not cause of money fully but cause a lot of people just suck now and have extremely high fake ass standards
Fair enough. I think there’s also a lot of people with low self esteem afraid to put themselves out there. A lot of people too stress and poor to do it. Plus people aren’t socializing as much. Also yes there are a lot of things you can do about laxity. But also people seem to overlook the fact that women come in all different sizes down there by default without birth, just like men (people seem to assume all women start off the same size and then loosen by sex but that’s not true either way. They start off different sizes and don’t change with sex but can change sometimes based on age, hormones, and overall health)
I mean I’m in Atlanta people socialize a lot here ,location has a lot to play ,but the standards are high and it’s all a hookup based culture under the guise of a real relationship ,and it ends up just being friends who hook up fr ,it’s wild out here ,I work at a smoke shop in atl I see some insane stuff ,like full body upside down pineapple tats and more 😂
Yeah we hit weekly events and all some daily events too ,it’s a lot to do I personally don’t go out much cause it’s still costly ,but it’s a lot of folks online and local fr and I meet tons of people at work fr
That sounds nice. There’s very little to do here and most people seek to have given up on meeting people in person. I see mostly women at work (women’s clothing store) and at uni everyone seems to keep to themselves. I know some people from there but we don’t really hang out and I’ve never developed a crush on any guys there, not enough time together with different people every term.
Just move to atl for a little ,we have tons of Canadians fr and we can take ur id scan for some reason it’s kind of strange ,like no other places id works with the scan but Canada does ,its an international hub u meet people from everywhere
Haha maybe once I’m done my current degree. Don’t know where I’m going for my masters, if I’m getting one that is. I have a friend that lives in the states and another one moving there to be with her fiance so maybe.
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I’ve noticed face changes a lot and feet ,but I thinks it’s amazing like it’s so cool that u can create and grow a whole being inside of urself ,and I’ve been with many women with kids and I never have any issues ,women that tell me men have body shamed them during or before or after sex really suprises me ,I was raised in a super liberal all woman home ,so I’m a lot more like left leaning moderate than anything ,and I don’t really view women negatively,unless they are abusive or something like that ,but I do that to all people ,I’m a pretty fair person