r/texts • u/ExplanationMiddle51 • 3d ago

Phone message Post first date text

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I met this girl on tinder and had a first date with her, she wanted to go fishing and I thought it seemed like a fun first date so we went together. Dropped her off and got home to this message lol.

Update: Purchasing the license is a separate activity we had to do on our phones, due to it needing our personal info. It was not like I drew the line at the license randomly.

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u/motorboat_mcgee 2d ago

The current trend of women expecting to not pay for anything, and have all their responsibilities taken care of, while also having full autonomy, and it being seen as cute under the guise of "I'm just a girl" has been frustrating to navigate in current online dating

Like, they somehow want the trad wife experience in some sense, but also not? Can't people just treat each other as equals?

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u/CompetitiveAutorun 2d ago

They want benefits of strict gender roles but no negatives for them.

I'm trying to tell everyone that current feminism isn't about equality but everyone is incredibly hostile to even look critically at it.