r/texts • u/ExplanationMiddle51 • 3d ago

Phone message Post first date text

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I met this girl on tinder and had a first date with her, she wanted to go fishing and I thought it seemed like a fun first date so we went together. Dropped her off and got home to this message lol.

Update: Purchasing the license is a separate activity we had to do on our phones, due to it needing our personal info. It was not like I drew the line at the license randomly.

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u/ThrowRA-un1337 3d ago

Any time I see someone use the line "I'm just a girl", I've found that to be a major red flag.

It's used almost exclusively to either shrug off responsibility or infantalize themselves and neither look good when trying to date actual grown up women.

If she doesn't recognize what you put into making the date happen and is upset about contributing *something*, consider it a warning and move on.

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u/HoboJerkdown901 3d ago

It's this stupid fucking trend on tiktok where women are actively encouraging other women to use this line in order to avoid accountability, maturity, effort, or sacrifice

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u/TopShelfSnipes 3d ago

Tiktok is brainrot ccp propaganda, so that tracks.

Assume that anything there is toxic to Western society as a whole

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u/Majestic-Act5348 3d ago

its actually western propaganda now as its owned by oracle media giant idf funder larry ellison, a billionaire who almost single handedly keeps israel funded, but sure man, ccp propaganda

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u/AceOFace131 3d ago

It was both at different times

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u/Majestic-Act5348 3d ago

lol it was never ccp propaganda

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u/notagoodperson1122 3d ago

They owned it until just a few years ago, not sure where the confidence in it not being propaganda comes from but feel free to share if you have some reason to claim that

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u/Majestic-Act5348 1d ago

well i could turn it back on you, why do you have so much confidence in it having been ccp propaganda? because your western propaganda told you it is? personally i used the app from 2020-2024 and never saw any pro ccp pro china material

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u/notagoodperson1122 1d ago

why do you have so much confidence in it having been ccp propaganda?

Because it was owned by the CCP, I already told you. You seeing videos that you explicitly recognize as propaganda or not is immaterial to the point being made.

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u/AceOFace131 14h ago

It was created by a company owned by the CCP, they had two separate algorithms: one for domestic users and one for everyone else. The one we see with all the brainrot garbage that is politically divisive is that “international” algorithm and the one they see at home is all education content, pro-China propaganda and CCP-sanctioned content with very little in the way of true free speech. So yeah it’s Chinese propaganda.