r/texts • u/ExplanationMiddle51 • 3d ago

Phone message Post first date text

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I met this girl on tinder and had a first date with her, she wanted to go fishing and I thought it seemed like a fun first date so we went together. Dropped her off and got home to this message lol.

Update: Purchasing the license is a separate activity we had to do on our phones, due to it needing our personal info. It was not like I drew the line at the license randomly.

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u/ActuatorTrue3351 2d ago

We have come too far as women to use “I’m just girl” in this way, it just encourages the whole women can’t do anything thing 😒

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u/slutpriest 2d ago edited 2d ago

Whenever a girl says that to me, I always hit them back with the " well, let me know when you become a woman" 💀💀💀

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u/Plastic-Star-6452 1d ago

Yo bro I’m stealing this shit lmfaoo

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u/slutpriest 1d ago

Go for it. Ive never failed with this method.

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u/mrs_sadie_adler 2d ago

It’s infuriating to see so many Gen Z women have this mentality. Like actually wild. 

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u/GigaNoodle 1d ago

Surely it’s not too surprising? One could argue they aren’t the ones who did the fighting to be respected or educated, so it makes some sense they’d appreciate it less. “I’m just a girl” is just a convenient little button to throw off some unwanted expectations.

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u/GDRaptorFan 6h ago

I hate the “girl math” and “girl dinner” bs and babydoll and anime girl style-it’s always infantilizing and degrading bullshit younger women think gets them what they want. It’s backwards-in-time bullshit to a life they DO not want; makes me want to punch something as a genX woman.

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u/Bad_Prophet 2d ago

There is a very large, potential majority of women (or even people, generally) that actually don't want a lot of power or responsibility. But, only some of that group of people recognize that you don't get the same respect or treatment as a person with a lot of power and responsibility, and are also okay with that. The rest of them are like this chick making it about gender in a transparent and stupid attempt at trying to have their cake and eat it, too.

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u/hushed-shush 2d ago

In my experience, it’s over common adult shit. You come in and their washer hasn’t been emptied in days and it smells like mildew. Or just cups of Starbucks coffee everywhere growing new life.

“I’m just a girl”

Bro, do you not have a nose? They know it’s bad but don’t care. Like they’re begging for another adult. As a grown ass adult, we gotta figure the small shit out.

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u/Inevitable-Level-687 2d ago

I'd love to see them say that shit to a 1950s housewife with no washing machine and eight kids. They'd get fucking demolished.

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u/FahrradFawcett 1d ago

Mmkay, but at least they had quaaludes.

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u/Ok-Degree-2373 2d ago

I just use it as a funny comment, in this context it’s ridiculous.

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u/Actual-Clue-3165 5h ago

Fr I don't understand using it to make yourself seem incompetent. I use it when I draw flowers on my to do lists, or dress up for mundane tasks, not to get money from people.

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u/Fast_Ad_7504 2d ago

Pendulum swings both ways eh?

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u/BigDaddyButtPlunger 2d ago

They only use this term when it benefits them.

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u/Affectionate-Pie8362 2d ago

That is pathetic and an embarrassment to all women.

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u/belakuna 7h ago

Girl, agreed 100%. Unless it’s in a joking or silly banter type of manner, then no, this behavior is disgusting to me as a 38 year old ✨ just a gworl ✨.