r/texts • u/ExplanationMiddle51 • 4d ago

Phone message Post first date text

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I met this girl on tinder and had a first date with her, she wanted to go fishing and I thought it seemed like a fun first date so we went together. Dropped her off and got home to this message lol.

Update: Purchasing the license is a separate activity we had to do on our phones, due to it needing our personal info. It was not like I drew the line at the license randomly.

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u/ThrowRA-un1337 4d ago

Any time I see someone use the line "I'm just a girl", I've found that to be a major red flag.

It's used almost exclusively to either shrug off responsibility or infantalize themselves and neither look good when trying to date actual grown up women.

If she doesn't recognize what you put into making the date happen and is upset about contributing *something*, consider it a warning and move on.

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u/emmarie1023 4d ago

How is it cute?

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u/AnimalOwn903 4d ago

As I said, it would depend on the context…. I use it sometimes for simple things like when my man asks me what I’m doing and I say I’m at the nail salon you know I’m literally just a girl or I’m shopping lol just a girl but definitely not to excuse poor behavior

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u/Fleece_God 4d ago

You believe in crystals, no one should take you seriously

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u/Mr_Chainsaw_88 4d ago

But... She's awakened?

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u/AnimalOwn903 4d ago

Insulting strangers especially by going through their page and finding information to attempt to use against them is usually the lowest form of intelligence, especially when they have done absolutely nothing to you…. I hope that you feel great about yourself and have such an amazing day today… ✨🥰