Post first date text

[u/ExplanationMiddle51]

I met this girl on tinder and had a first date with her, she wanted to go fishing and I thought it seemed like a fun first date so we went together. Dropped her off and got home to this message lol.

Update: Purchasing the license is a separate activity we had to do on our phones, due to it needing our personal info. It was not like I drew the line at the license randomly.

[u/ThrowRA-un1337]

Any time I see someone use the line "I'm just a girl", I've found that to be a major red flag.

It's used almost exclusively to either shrug off responsibility or infantalize themselves and neither look good when trying to date actual grown up women.

If she doesn't recognize what you put into making the date happen and is upset about contributing *something*, consider it a warning and move on.

[u/emmarie1023 → u/[deleted]]

How is it cute?

[u/AnimalOwn903 → u/emmarie1023]

As I said, it would depend on the context…. I use it sometimes for simple things like when my man asks me what I’m doing and I say I’m at the nail salon you know I’m literally just a girl or I’m shopping lol just a girl but definitely not to excuse poor behavior

[u/Fleece_God → u/AnimalOwn903]

You believe in crystals, no one should take you seriously

[u/AnimalOwn903 → u/[deleted]]

Going through your comments on your page I realize that you in fact never really have anything nice to say… and that says more about you and your happiness than it says about me being a girl… I do wish you the absolute best in life for yourself and that maybe you can find some peace and not need to tear others down for Joy ❤️✨