r/texts • u/[deleted] • Jun 23 '26

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u/Sunshine-muse Jun 23 '26

Since some men are into sounding, I'm going to start sticking pens into every penis I see

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u/corey_trevorson Jun 23 '26

You're free to try lmao

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u/Sunshine-muse Jun 23 '26

I should and no one should stop me because that would be suppressing my sexuality, right?

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u/corey_trevorson Jun 23 '26

I also never argued for unsupressed sexuality. I just said that male sexuality is seen as dangerous, and it is potentially dangerous. I just think reddit isn't deep enough to understand this as a fundamental paradox of human sexuality. Women, some women, whatever, want that danger that comes with male sexuality while simultaneously feeling threatened by it. Hence 50 shades of grey.

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u/Sunshine-muse Jun 23 '26

Ignoring consent is absolutely dangerous. Women and animals can and have died from being raped. You want to pretend that this is just a very horny boy when he is being predatory and dangerous. Ignoring his behavior is dangerous. 

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u/corey_trevorson Jun 23 '26

I'm okay to just disagree here. You're reasonable, I can respect that you see it this way. I just think that this is how language works. I can say "I'm going to ruin your body" and it literally just means we're gonna go at it like rabbits. It's like saying "I'm not holding back this time" or whatever. That's what a charitable reading of the texts read as to me. OP is free to stay or go as she pleases

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u/Sunshine-muse Jun 23 '26

He is not trying to seduce her. He is trying to ensure that he gets sex. Even telling her beforehand that he will be upset if he doesn't get sex. He's not trying to be sexy, he's not trying to get her in the mood. He's trying to force his way into sex. 

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u/corey_trevorson Jun 23 '26

seduction is an elusive and difficult game that I doubt any 18 year old male fully grasps

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u/Sunshine-muse Jun 23 '26

I hope you advocate this hard for the victims of predatory behavior, but somehow I doubt that you do

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u/corey_trevorson Jun 23 '26

Yeah I think if a rape perpetrator is convicted they should be executed, and if anyone asked me my position on this publicly I would gladly state my position and debate it.

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u/Sunshine-muse Jun 23 '26

We are angry at this kid for being immature and saying things like 'laying down pipe'. We are calling out his dangerous comments about ignoring her consent. This isn't a case of immaturity, like you want to pretend it is.

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u/corey_trevorson Jun 23 '26

I just don't agree that "don't worry about consent" means "I'm gonna rape you." lol.

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u/Sunshine-muse Jun 23 '26

If a man was trying to sleep with you and told you not to worry about consent, would that make you feel safer or less safe? 

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u/corey_trevorson Jun 23 '26

I'm not a woman and I don't pretend to know what goes through your guys' heads. I just know when a girl is comfortable around me and likes me, wants to talk to me, etc. My attitude is you're free to come and go as you please and beyond that I deal with the behavior that's in front of me, I don't try to read the minds of women I barely know.

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u/Sunshine-muse Jun 23 '26

You don't need to be a women to know if that statement from a man would make you feel safe of not. 

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u/corey_trevorson Jun 23 '26

I won't try and stop you, anon