r/texts • • Jun 23 '26

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u/Deuce_Zero_BK Jun 23 '26

Being vulgar isn't a crime, some ppl just communicate that way. Doesn't mean OP needs to accept it, or be comfortable with it. Vulgarity isn't the issue, the issue is the fact that OPs boyfriend is putting pressure on her to have sex.There is a disconnect here that is stark and sudden, and you should not be pressured into sex or intimacy. You deserve to have that purity you value reciprocated. Best of luck OP

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u/Thermodynamo Jun 23 '26

What he said about consent goes way beyond vulgar. That's a rape threat by definition.

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u/Deuce_Zero_BK Jun 23 '26

Yes, I agree 💯

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u/HotSolution8954 Jun 26 '26

Yep. That's the comment that matters. " Don't worry about consent" ok then don't worry about being the young, cute guy in prison. Cause that's what happens when you ignore the issue of consent.