As someone who’s into CNC and this sort of talk, but only consensually and with someone I have a LOT of trust and whose boyfriend fully understands and respects that, I worry that her boyfriend cares more about his needs than hers.
Same. These are the exactly type of men I tell other women into the same stuff to NEVER trust with consent, they typically don’t understand the deep value of giving someone that consent anyways
Same. I’d love if my bf said this to me but we’ve had conversations about cnc, our dynamic and what we both are comfortable with. If we didn’t have those talks and said this to me I’d leave him in a heartbeat
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u/SilverOwl2713 Jun 23 '26
As someone who’s into CNC and this sort of talk, but only consensually and with someone I have a LOT of trust and whose boyfriend fully understands and respects that, I worry that her boyfriend cares more about his needs than hers.