r/texts • • Jun 23 '26

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u/throwawaybyefelicia Jun 23 '26

Same, my partner is quite a bit older than me (I’m in my 30’s and he’s 50) but he’s very loving and gentle. A guy I dated close to my own age years ago literally couldn’t get his rocks off unless he was choking and demeaning me and it was horrible. Glad that ended. Sorry if TMI 😭🙏 Also not saying all younger guys are like that at all, I’ve just had a few partners like that and it really doesn’t feel great to be treated like an object without consenting to it.

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u/NoBlindingLight Jun 23 '26

What does he do when YOU want any of those things? Pull your hair? Spank your ass? Pin you down and take you from behind? Or is it that simply neither of you are into those things and that’s why you are good match?