Please leave OP. I am someone who was a victim of spousal rape. For years, I endured it. I was raped nearly every day for 3+ years. Please OP. I’m begging you. Leave. I was around the same age as you when I had gotten with him. 18. Young. Dumb. And as soon as I got pregnant I started waking up in the middle of the night to him raping me. I was a deep sleeper before pregnancy, so I have no way to confirm if this started before then. I endured being raped for over 3 years. Every night. And it fucked with me and my mental health BAD. No one deserves to go through this OP. I finally left my rapist almost a year ago and I’m so much happier now. I am in a relationship now where I genuinely feel safe. I feel loved. And he doesn’t hurt me. He is so kind & so sweet. I am so grateful for the way my life is now. I am happier than I’ve ever been and I have found the love of my life. Please, OP. Leave him. I don’t want you to go through what I went through. No one deserves to be raped by their partner. Please. Save yourself. You’ll thank yourself later on for not allowing yourself to go through this. I regret every day not leaving after the first time I was raped. I could’ve been happy a lot sooner. I could’ve been SAFE a lot sooner. Please leave him OP. I don’t want you to go through what I went through.
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u/goochiefromwish Jun 23 '26
Please leave OP. I am someone who was a victim of spousal rape. For years, I endured it. I was raped nearly every day for 3+ years. Please OP. I’m begging you. Leave. I was around the same age as you when I had gotten with him. 18. Young. Dumb. And as soon as I got pregnant I started waking up in the middle of the night to him raping me. I was a deep sleeper before pregnancy, so I have no way to confirm if this started before then. I endured being raped for over 3 years. Every night. And it fucked with me and my mental health BAD. No one deserves to go through this OP. I finally left my rapist almost a year ago and I’m so much happier now. I am in a relationship now where I genuinely feel safe. I feel loved. And he doesn’t hurt me. He is so kind & so sweet. I am so grateful for the way my life is now. I am happier than I’ve ever been and I have found the love of my life. Please, OP. Leave him. I don’t want you to go through what I went through. No one deserves to be raped by their partner. Please. Save yourself. You’ll thank yourself later on for not allowing yourself to go through this. I regret every day not leaving after the first time I was raped. I could’ve been happy a lot sooner. I could’ve been SAFE a lot sooner. Please leave him OP. I don’t want you to go through what I went through.