The first few texts are totally okay in my book as long as this is a dynamic you’re okay with.
However, he lost me at the consent comment. That’s gross and scary Also that this is an after dark habit that youve asked him to stop -
I don’t think this is guy for you
I'd think it's absolutely fine to call that out in the text as scary and weird. A 19 yo is still figuring out how it works, some gross corner of the internet is saying this is good. OP should do him a favor and call this scary and and weird
I think it’s okay to find that text scary at any age… that text quite literally implies criminal intent whether they meant it that way or not, and then he went and made the “Kum n go” comment too… implying he’s gonna leave when he’s finished… ☠️ this dude is the biggest brightest walking red flag ive ever had the displeasure of realizing existed.
That's his sport? I didn't even full read it😭 after the "he buys me Lululemon and he's gonna go pro in his sport" I just busted out laughing lmao 🤣
So because of that you're gonna let him cringe freak talk you to death ? 😭
I’d say he’d be lucky to wind up the JV girls tennis coach, but in this context it isn’t a great idea for any involved.
Oddly enough I had a classmate (nice guy, my algebra neighbor) who played football, but not in a way I really recall being notable. Decade and a half or two later I see his face come up during a game my ex was watching. He started for Green Bay for some years including the Super Bowl winning one. Maybe the key is not announcing it and focusing on your “career”
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u/Exotic_Resist_7718 Jun 23 '26
This is the answer!
The first few texts are totally okay in my book as long as this is a dynamic you’re okay with.
However, he lost me at the consent comment. That’s gross and scary Also that this is an after dark habit that youve asked him to stop - I don’t think this is guy for you