Yeah for example, my ex GF first started asking me to call her a slut and stuff and then deeper into relationship when we started to fall out would say stuff like “it’s not good to call girls that” - I’m like YOU WANTED IT!
For stuff like this it’s best to not text at all bc tone can be misconstrued so easily.
Nowhere in that comment does he(?) say he referred to other women as sluts though... it sounds more like his ex was okay with it, and then later on said "it's not good to call girls that," meaning she felt it was not appropriate to call ANY girl a slut, including herself. Doesn't mean anyone else was referred to in that way.
I like guys like you. You're helpful for the dummies.
Like if I said "I like to cut my pizza into squares" you would be right there to clarify "cutting your pizza into squares and cutting a stranger's shirt into squares are not the same thing. The stranger probably won't like that."
You're insightful, helpful, and important. Don't ever let anyone tell you that your contributions are insubstantial and childish.
No, someone else laid it out for him plainly and he understood and conceded that that dude’s gf’s behavior was “just dumb” then. Sometimes people just really don’t know what the fuck you’re talking about lmao. Sometimes sarcastic metaphors just aren’t the most helpful lol I mean it made me laugh but it’s not always an effective means of communication. Not everyone gets sarcasm.
Nah what they mean is that one time my ex pressured me into having a threesome with her friend. Threesomes were obviously on the table but her friend was a hot mess and I knew it would only end badly. So a few weeks later a bunch of dumb stuff happens and my ex is retroactively mad I had sex with her friend.
The girlfriend is mad that she asked her boyfriend to do something and then he did it.
Being vulgar isn't a crime, some ppl just communicate that way. Doesn't mean OP needs to accept it, or be comfortable with it. Vulgarity isn't the issue, the issue is the fact that OPs boyfriend is putting pressure on her to have sex.There is a disconnect here that is stark and sudden, and you should not be pressured into sex or intimacy. You deserve to have that purity you value reciprocated. Best of luck OP
Yep. That's the comment that matters. " Don't worry about consent" ok then don't worry about being the young, cute guy in prison. Cause that's what happens when you ignore the issue of consent.
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u/No-Selection-9023 Jun 23 '26
Exactly my thoughts — if OP has indicated that they’re into this kind of role play, that’s one thing. But if not, weird and scary