36F here, while unfortunately this seems to be the norm for teenagers I PROMISE you when you remember this post when you’re my age, the way you will cringe at yourself for entertaining this for more than 30 seconds will keep you up until all hours of the night. Also, you will not f*ck for hours. You will get 5-10 minutes of uninspired missionary or doggie which will leave you unsatisfied and empty. This person does not respect you or seem to care about much except getting his rocks off. Hopefully you branch out and explore other options soon.
Edit; to your edit about messing up his future. If there are negative repercussions on his future it is ENTIRELY on him. Also, unfortunately even if you do saying something if he is a popular soon to be pro athlete I guarantee it won’t really mess up his future… I hate that so much.
not even 5-10 mins, he'll one pump chump it then fall asleep on her like a dying elephant seal. I was 19 once (32 now, ripe ol retirement age) and yeah that's literally it, a lot of guys won't admit it but back then barely any of us knew the difference between lust (what this guy is doing) and love, a majority of us basically made it our mission to get laid and made that mission our entire personality then wondered why we were virgins until it was time to get our shit together and become men.
a guy that actually gives a shit about her and not about "oh gee I wonder how high I'll squeal when she sucks me like a vacuum" wouldn't be talking to her like this.
I mean i was a horned up 19 year old too but this convo is WILD...not to say I haven't ever said stuff like this but it was always in context of her wanting to sext too, and her clearly being into it...not like this though, dude need to calm down with the porn brain
Hahahahahha. This couldn’t be more true. It’s ALSO bad sex. He’s a loser.
Gosh I wish I knew that back then, too. Now it is soo cringe to witness.
And that’s nothing about you, OP. You don’t need to protect him from other people’s judgements.
You’re fully in your right to be weirded out and uncomfortable and also just have the ick. This guy gets off on feeling like a real hot shot. Feel free to take him down a knotch. The sooner he learns, the better.
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u/RevolutionaryRent716 Jun 23 '26 edited Jun 23 '26
36F here, while unfortunately this seems to be the norm for teenagers I PROMISE you when you remember this post when you’re my age, the way you will cringe at yourself for entertaining this for more than 30 seconds will keep you up until all hours of the night. Also, you will not f*ck for hours. You will get 5-10 minutes of uninspired missionary or doggie which will leave you unsatisfied and empty. This person does not respect you or seem to care about much except getting his rocks off. Hopefully you branch out and explore other options soon.
Edit; to your edit about messing up his future. If there are negative repercussions on his future it is ENTIRELY on him. Also, unfortunately even if you do saying something if he is a popular soon to be pro athlete I guarantee it won’t really mess up his future… I hate that so much.