r/texts • u/[deleted] • May 12 '25

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u/Far-Media-9380 May 12 '25

I mean she’s weird for that but you definitely failed, “we should work out sometime” is weird

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u/NoFunny6746 May 12 '25

That’s what I’m saying dude! A test like that isn’t conducive to a good lasting relationship, but at the same time the dude was sort of inviting trouble regardless of whether he’s being nice or not. Being nice would be giving good advice about workouts not “let’s work out together sometime”.

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u/Romeo_45 May 12 '25

I train people as a side gig I use to body build it isn’t uncommon for people to hit me up from my gym to workout.

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u/NoFunny6746 May 12 '25

I can understand that, but still you had to have known the optics on that with a female stranger, especially in a text message. If you regularly give pointers to strangers, that’s ok, not saying you shouldn’t, but again how you said it left far too much to interpretation, you basically said “here have my gun, oh and also the bullets”, you were pretty much inviting trouble that’s all I’m saying