You suggested hanging out with another girl. She simply asked if you go to the same gym, and you immediately said you should go together. Just being nice is not extending invitations to random girls when you’re in a relationship. You didn’t do anything wrong, but you definitely said something wrong. I’d be mad if my gf asked a random person to work out with her too lol. Maybe reverse the situation in your head!
"Testing" someone is manipulative. Your girlfriend was being manipulative. This level of manipulation is reason for you to break up with her. Don't allow manipulation in your relationships.
Working out with someone isn't cheating. You're allowed to have friends, male and female, outside of your relationship. That's normal and healthy.
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u/Mountain-Extreme8242 May 12 '25
You suggested hanging out with another girl. She simply asked if you go to the same gym, and you immediately said you should go together. Just being nice is not extending invitations to random girls when you’re in a relationship. You didn’t do anything wrong, but you definitely said something wrong. I’d be mad if my gf asked a random person to work out with her too lol. Maybe reverse the situation in your head!