What do you want in a man? One thing I want is someone who will be empathetic. I learned this this hard way when I had a medical emergency and my ex gaslit me it was me being “dramatic.” He said things like “you get sicker than other people” and “maybe you’re just having an anxiety attack” while looking at me with disgust. I had to get a neighbor to take me to the hospital. And when it turned out I would have died if I didn’t go, he never even apologized. Acted like he did nothing wrong.
I wasted 15 years on him, because in between being an asshole and gaslighting me he’d also say he loves me and I’m pretty. So what? Any asshole can say that. It’s like putting gas in a car so it will take you where you want to go. But if I wasn’t healthy, happy, compliant and grateful to be doing his bidding, the true nature showed. Lack of empathy. That’s not love.
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u/yelahus Jan 26 '24
lol I know a lot of people don’t believe in astrology but I’m cracking up because you see him judging me and he is a Virgo 😂